I'm a really quiet person and i recently moved here and i'm trying to learn how to open up to people from my quietness. what are some tips on the open up?
2006-07-02 16:20:48 · 15 answers · asked by cheese N Crackers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The more you talk to people, the easier it will get. It's like reading, the only way to get better is to do it.
Remember that people are flattered that someone wants to talk to them. Don't focus so much on what they think of you.
2006-07-02 16:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ginger/Virginia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My quietness always came from thing about what other people think of me. When I went off to college the way I learned to "open up" was to just not care what people thought of me.
2006-07-02 23:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by K-C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with something simple like "can i borrow that pencil" or "what is the homework" or something along those lines. then start a little conversation and soon you will become more opened up. Also, you can try joining a club or a group with people with similar interests. Or you can join something that involves a lot of talking like speech and debate or something like that so you will get used to talking in front of people.
hope it helpsâ¥
2006-07-02 23:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by chels♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try starting a conversation with the person next to you in a check out line in a store. Talk about the weather or how crowded it is. It may sound silly but it works.
2006-07-02 23:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just open up, join someone(another quiet person) and talk to the person. Yeah, and just talk about revelant stuff like pop stars or anything relevant.
2006-07-02 23:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by yewny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join clubs and sports and things like that. It's a great way to meet people. Everyone wants to figure out the "new person" so let them!
2006-07-02 23:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by hodagwriter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to where you will have things in common with the others. Library, swim club or other sport. , dancing, take a class in something like cake baking, learn to sew, learn to make Christmas bow. If you already have something in common you will already have something to talk about.
2006-07-02 23:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry a smile when eye contact is there, let it take it's course from there. You will be amazed with a little time at the results.
2006-07-02 23:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by digitalD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. Be yourself. Don't lie. Just jump in. You're as good as everybody else, if not better. You certainly have a talent for designing an Avatar.
2006-07-02 23:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and become a conversation starter and talk about things you know dont lie or brag and you wont have any reasons to worry you said something wrong. and look people in the eyes
2006-07-02 23:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by tommyaux1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋