I had a friend,a very close friend indeed. We practically shared our ups n downs n i suddenly caught her playing truant behind my back,but thats bcos she had some probs n didn't want me to know. I forgived her but she forgot me. I helped her get out her probs n this is wat i get back in return. Pls advise me.
2006-07-02 16:07:48 · 12 answers · asked by KaNie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She practically dislikes me and wants to move away from me. I'm confused myself.
2006-07-02 16:11:39 · update #1
Well, u have done a go deed for her so that means ur the one who's gonna be blessed for helping her out. She's gonna get whats coming to her to not showing that she's grateful for what u done for her.
So just know that whenever u do this for someone from the heart it's a check make for u in heaven and the person who forgets u have done something for them is the ones who will suffer.
Don't try doing anything to get back at her for this. Just forget her and move on, she's not worth it
And the next time she needs help she'l know she can't come to u anymore
2006-07-02 16:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that she has forgotten you. Perhaps, she is just trying to pick up the pieces without bothering you. True friends will be friends forever and no matter what happens between them, they will always be friends. If she was a close friend of yours, if there was nothing negative that happened between you, I bet she remains your close friend until now. You may even be surprised if one of these days, she will communicate with you again. Give her time because perhaps that's what she needs right now. To be alone. To solve her problems by herself. To prove to the world that she has matured as a woman. To have time with herself to know who she really is. Let time tell what the future brings for your friendship. Good luck.
2006-07-02 23:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this hard, but you really need to work on your writing skills. I know the text msg and instant slang is in but what you wrote is difficult to translate.
I think you mean that she treated you one way but talked about you another way. If this is true then I would first address this problem with her and see if she agrees that it's a wrong way to be, if she doesn't then I'd say ditch the friendship. You need people to be real with you and so you aren't wondering if they are just being all nice but thinking negative thoughts about you. That is not friendship.
2006-07-02 23:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Sierra Sun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is how ur friends treat you.....get some enemies and call em over 4 a party. Forget them..tell them your thoughts and if they still want no part of you...move on and get REAL FRIENDS. Friends stay together no matter what.
2006-07-02 23:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by Budweiser No.8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are really close as friends than this little spat or big one will pass with time. Remember she needed you at one point in time, she will be there for you at some point as well.
2006-07-02 23:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont quite understand you. Perhaps repost speaking proper english and explain the problem in more detail. You forgave her but she forgot you?
I'm confused.
2006-07-02 23:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Midnghtangls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God, after reading that question there is no doubt that your friend hates you... and you pretty much deserve it for the way you treated her...
2006-07-02 23:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah so she was your friend she was snitchin behind your back you guys made up and she ditched you is that what i'm gettin oh now that is harsh
2006-07-02 23:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is being ungreatful.....talk to her and tell her how u feel........if she can't reason out with u....dump that friendship...cry a few days (if u need to ).....then, NEXT.......life must go on.......y feel for someone who don't care abt your feelings.
2006-07-03 00:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fshe wants to stay away from you then don't force her.
2006-07-02 23:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋