what would you do if your ex never called you back (re: hanging out)and you want to still hang out with him.?should i call him? i was the one that broke up with him (because i felt i didnt want a relationship) and we hung out at school and everything was fine. i called him cause we set a day to hang out and left a message on his cell over a week ago. he never called back. so...should i call him or what? if so, what should i say? and we both made plans to hang out. it's not like it's a one way thing or anything...and my friend works w/ him and he was kinda upset that he was working the day he was soposed to hang out w/ me. he said "ohhh i was soposed to hang out with Alyssa today" <- something like that and well...why hasnt he called?I'm probally going to call him anyway cause i dont want to loose him as a friend.
2006-07-02 15:26:00 · 12 answers · asked by anna c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Slow down for a minute,if his friend said he had to work and was bummed that he couldnt hang out with you thats probably all it is,dont read to much into it,and if you are that afraid of losing him maybe a breakup wasnt such a good idea??Good luck God bless:O)
2006-07-03 02:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
He may be hurt because you broke up with him. I would just call him and tell him that you still want to be friends with him. Ex boyfriends don't always work out as just being friends but let him know you want to give it a shot. If he does want to be friends then that's great, if not move on and forget about him because it is meant to be either way it turns out. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you. Next time think about if you want to be in a relationship with the guy or not and because you may not always get to still be friends with your ex boyfriends.
2006-07-02 22:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Cajirenee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinks that because you broke up with him, that it also ended the friendship as well. at school you two hung out cuz it was probably in a group and around friends and he felt comfortable. but just with his ex it feels a little akward.i would give him some time to recover from the break up and then try talking to him again.guys are alot more emotional then we girls realize, and thats a vital thing to remember after breaking up with him. give him time, and after about a week or so, try calling him. or better, if you know where he lives, go visit him.good luck.
2006-07-02 22:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times do you need to ask "what would you do if your ex never called you back (re: hanging out)and you want to still hang out with him.?" can see why he f-ing wont call
2006-07-02 22:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by tc_an_american 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say let him go.. move forward do things with other friends don't sound desperate... he may miss you more if you are not so available.. you most likely really hurt him the ego if nothing else and he has to act as if it doesn't matter ... let him heal and perhaps you will find you really don't miss him as much as you thought.. Good luck
2006-07-02 22:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by sandi4551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. You broke up with him. He could be trying to move on. He could be out with someone else. If he doesn't return your calls, that's your answer. You chose this, now you have to live with it. It might be tough, but let him go. Hounding him won't make him like you.
2006-07-02 22:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he wanted to hang out with you bad enough then he would have made time to hang out with you. But since he didnt then i dont think that he wants to hang out with you that bad. Dont chase him. Then that will push him away.......if he wanted to be friends with you after you broke up then he would make an effort.....but since he didnt then i think that you need to just keep him in your memories
2006-07-02 22:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by toodie7298 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are a lot more emotional and fragile than most people think. keep in contact, call and ask how he's doing, but don't try and make plans for a while unless it's in a group
2006-07-02 22:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by cocoanutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think , if he hates you for some reason because u made some mistake, you shout try saying " Give me a one more Chance" it usuall works...
2006-07-02 22:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one give him up and give him time then try to be friends
2006-07-02 22:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by esile619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋