I have been w/ my b/f for 2 years and 4months and I love him to death but sometimes i wanna tell him it's over. he works in the sun all day and by the time he gets home he is tired and doesnt wanna talk but when i do talk he yells at me to be quiet. We have been getting into alot of arguments this past weekend i left to San Antonio and i didnt talk to him i felt lonely. i dont want to leave him b/c i will feel like i lost a part of me. should i give him space what should i do ?
2006-07-02 15:15:13 · 10 answers · asked by lysa4208 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do you guys live together? i feel the same way i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i guess after a while men just dont want to really be borthered with talking on the phone he is most likey tired and just wants to relax when he gets home that doesnt mean he doesnt love you .i think you should give him his space which i know can be really hard because us gurls like to talk on the phone just try and hang with girlfriends or if you guys live together when he comes home just make him a nice dinner and dont really talk .but if he never wants to talk to you like for months mayb you should get someone new
2006-07-02 15:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get past a relationship that was long term.. but sounds like he needs more than space.. if his job is that tiring or stressful he might want to look for something else.. there is NO excuse to yell at someone whom you love or loves you.. i don't know your age but life does go on.. i have had to start over many times both due to divorce and the death of a spouse... very hard very lonely... but my dear we just put one foot in front of the other and move forward.. perhaps a talk with a pastor of your church.. ?? Good luck and God bless
2006-07-02 15:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by sandi4551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be under a lot of pressure. I would just give him a little space. Do keep in touch with him, but give him some space to breathe.
If after the time alone, if he is still not communicating with you, then I would consider talking to him again. Your last choice is to leave the relationship and hope for the best.
2006-07-02 16:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he works in the sun all day, that can make anyone tired and irritable. Guys sometimes need a chance to unwind when they come home from work. Maybe give him some time before talking.
2006-07-02 15:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by girlboyinlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break. DON'T break up, because i definitely understand that you and him probably have something, but give him time to get everything situated for his self and to also miss you and see what type of role you play in his life. Do make it known you don't like being yelled at, but be passive agressive, don't yell back, he could very well just be stressed. GOOD LUCK!! = )
2006-07-02 15:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Babee cakez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no excuse for him to yell at you( like you were his doormat). Give him "His SPACE", maybe he will see the "LIGHT". If not then you will get over him in time. Good Luck.
2006-07-02 15:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't see his job situation changing, I would choose to not be with him anymore. What you're feeling sounds more habitual than anything- once you find something else to fill that part of your life you may not miss him at all.
2006-07-02 15:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by cocoanutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes give alot of space to make him really miss u
2006-07-03 08:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the positive points in this relationship?
2006-07-02 15:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop nagging him and see what happens
2006-07-02 15:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by beer_pharts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋