her mom knows i had sex with her because she is pregnet
2006-07-02 15:00:31 · 27 answers · asked by mr.luke4 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
she did not have sex with anyother person
2006-07-02 15:23:56 · update #1
She is pregnant and you are worried about the fact that her mother knows the 2 of you had sex??? That is the least of your worries right now.
Not sure what your question is, but my advice is take your girlfriend to your house and tell your parents next. It will be much better to hear it from you than from her parents. Then get everyone together.
And trust me.. they will all be upset, and yell and be disappointed, but it doesn't mean that they don't love you or that your life is over.
Don't let anyone tell you that you won't make it. That you are too young, that life is over, that you can't be a good parents. I know adults that shouldn't be parents.
Be responsible and take care of this baby. Get a job, or 2 if you have to. Finish school. Things can work out.
And for goodness sake... next time use protection!! or you will be writing the same thing again in no time!
I was a mom at 16. The father and I got married a few years later. I am now 30 .. we are still married.. I graduated high school, we own our business, we own several homes and I wouldn't change a thing.
Good Luck!
2006-07-02 15:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh....I don't even know what to say. Yes you are in some trouble. If you really did love her maybe you would've thought about it first before you did some offspringing. Adoption is a good reference. I'm not sure what else to say. You're not in a good situation at all. I look at you like an example , no affence, my boyfriend and i were talking about your situation, and now I feel better that both of us wait until we're married. I hope you do okay, just do the right thing and do what's best for the baby.
2006-07-02 15:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by alyssa_ingle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that you made a mistake. It happens. Not to make light of the situation, but there is little you can do about it now. Your best bet is to admit to your family and hers that you made a mistake and that you are willing to deal with the consequences of that mistake. Yes, there will probably be a lot of yelling for a while and maybe some tears, but in the end, you have to go with the hand you are delt. Be a man about it, step up and take responsibility for your actions and take care of your gf and your child as best you can. You families should at least respect you for that.
2006-07-02 15:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by pctechiejosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in trouble or the next 18-19 years (child support).
Don't know the age limit for consentual sex where you live but you could be charged with raping a minor.
2006-07-02 15:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by older woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are probably in some trouble - but probably the best thing to do is talk to the girl and her mother and find out how you can fix things. Luckily you're not in legal trouble. You should talk to the girl, her parents and your parents and figure out the best solution to the situation - this is an adult problem and as you're definitely not ready to deal with it on your own, you need to get the adults involved.
2006-07-02 15:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i dont know if im going to me much help but i am 16 so i could be. ur going to have to support her and be there if u love her thats what u should do, but i cant tell u what to do. her parents will be mad for awhile but should come around and help her. u might want to consider adoption if both of u think its the right thing to do or talk about how u would support this baby. well i hope i helped.
2006-07-02 16:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by temperforever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your parents obviously fu*ked up raising you somewhere along the lines, so let me just say I feel bad for this baby you are about to have because I doubt you will do any better.
As for your girl being in trouble, what are her parents going to do, ground her? She's fu*king pregnant! You've got bigger worries ahead ~ much bigger.
2006-07-02 15:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not create kids if you can't father them. you are a child yourself. put the baby up for adoption so he/she can grow up with loving MATURE parents. you haven't even gone to your highschool prom!!! why do kids do that? they mess a human being's life like that. why didn't you use protection? do you think it is in the best intrest of that child now to grow up with teen parents? read: when you have sex, you are a potential parent. stop doing it next time
2006-07-02 15:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know how she feels about the situation..? does she want to have the baby... you both need to sit down with both sets of parents and talk to them about it because you will both need all of the support you can get. you need to sort things out and figure out what is best for everyone. Dont worry about what people think worry about yorselves.
2006-07-02 15:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now man, that's the least of your worries. You're about to be a father and take care of another human being. Grow up and take it like a man.....she'll be alright. Just support her in anyway.
2006-07-02 15:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by sbcadam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋