Me and my boyfriend have bein goin out for a month on Saturday and we dont talk that much we tell each other we love each other and he has already asked me to marry him but he just got a job and he has church and he has to see his mom twice a week and then working then church he dont have time for me cause he spends time with his friend i have told him i dont feel like he loves me anymore but he says he does we never talk any more
2006-07-02 14:56:54 · 6 answers · asked by forsaken_41134 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
aaaaw hun....is like this in alot of relationships, u have told him how u feel and he still spends time with his friends, thats men for u hun....and the best thing to do is just ride it out...my mum use to tell me always, absence makes the heart grow fonder, and is true,...he will miss u like hell and will snap outta it sooner or later...dont fret hun cos if its meant to be then it will be.... ur lucky u get to see and feel and hug ur b/f...i have to make do with talking and viewing my b/f cam to see him smile at me....u see im in australia and hes in florida, but distance dosent matter a damn if ur in love and after we are finally together we will be the happiest 2 ppl on earth, love is in ur heart hun, just bcos ur not standing in front of some one all time dosent mean they dont love u....even across a huge sea i can feel the love of my b/f and is beautiful feeling believe me....just hang in there and take time out for urself...he will realise soon he misses u and it will be all good!...tc hun... : )
2006-07-02 15:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by angel_of_ur_heart35 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like your boyfriend has a busy life. The question is, does he want you to be a part of it. Is he making excuses or does he seriously not have the time. If you've only known each other for a month and are talking about marriage and he is this busy, I would really think about this. I would be a bit apprehensive.
2006-07-02 15:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by ddy'sgrl77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK girl get a grip - its been 1 month - give it time and you have the rest of your life and what about your interests - and how far away is he and how about sharing time in his interests like visiting his church, and family - give it time
2006-07-02 15:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) take a breath
2) he has his priorities.. church, family, and work are important to him.. cannot fault himon those..
3) it has only been 1 month.. cannot expect him to totally turn his life over to you that soon..
2006-07-02 15:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, exactly how you feel, if he tries to change keep him if not tell him you need someone whos gonna show you he cares for you
2006-07-02 15:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. make it long. tell him how u guys don ttalk much, and how u feel. if he really loves u, he'll do something about it. if u see him try- he loves u.
good luck
2006-07-02 15:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by nano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋