I dont want to hurt him if i'm not doing a good thing for my daughter please help me.
2006-07-02 14:45:50 · 28 answers · asked by kittycat16_16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok he loves my daughter hes got a good job he loves me but people dont think that its right for him to be dating a 22 year old so what do you think i should do?
2006-07-02 15:11:23 · update #1
I agree. If things are going well and you don't think he'd space out one day and leave, then you just keep doing what your doing. But if there's any chance that he'd leave the realationship, get out of it now before your daughter gets too attatched to him.
2006-07-02 14:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by bakerbride2005 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's into them solely (like in basic terms needs 18/19 year olds) then plainly like a fetish the place he's basically getting off on the assumption of ******* a youngster. this is strange and can snowball into wanting even young women imo. yet whilst he's into them to boot as different people who's thoroughly regular t'downers are indignant pervs
2016-11-01 02:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he good to you and your daughter? If so, then you aren't hurting your daughter as long as he doesn't feel threatened by your relationship with her and knows that she will come first. A child needs a mother to be there. If he is a man, he will understand this. The age difference doesn't mean a thing.
2006-07-02 14:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 19, what are you expecting from him. If it's only a fling, best to keep your baby out of it altogether. If it's a bit more serious, does he have anything to offer you both at 19? You might be better off with a person slightly older but established in a job or career. In any case, make sure he loves children before you get him and your little one involved. Best of luck!
2006-07-02 14:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by michael g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i dont know seems kinda young a 19 year old guy i dont think really wants to get to serious with a gurl that has a kid by someone else i would think he would want to go and party and meet gurls .well anyways dont get to attached and do not let this lil boy meet your daughter if you guys havent been together more then like 7 months you dont want your daughter meeting every guy you go out with it will only send her a really bad message
2006-07-02 14:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing but a number! Girl, if you talk to him and ask him what his intentions are with you and your child and he doesn't come up with a honest answer then I don't think you should introduce them yet! There is nothing wrong with your age difference but because of your child you should really concentrate on what he's thinking (short or long-term commitment) and what he really wants. Some guys think that because you allready have a child it's gonna be easier to get you in to bed. So, really think about that feeling you might have in your gut and follow it!
2006-07-02 15:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by lady93534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want two kids instead of one? at the moment i mean. A 19yr old guy is very immature usually and will be looking to date more women than just one. You are not only reuining your chance to be with a more mature man that can take care of you but you may indeed be ruining yr 19yr old guy 's life because at theat age he is not ready to take on family life and its responsibilities. specially with you having a kid that's not his.
I think you should really evaluate what Im sayhing and take heed so that you dont hurt yoruself, yr child, and the 19yr old boy.
You'd be having two kids to raise, yr own and yr 19yr old guy and I think you deserve more help and maturity than going through that lifestyle.
Think about it, but with yr head not yr heart.
You yourself are very young, you have a chance to meet other men who will be capable to do what this other guy may not come close to.
Good luck.
2006-07-02 14:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by noteparece? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't. Nobody likes to be alone. But remember, your child did not ask to come into this world, so he/she has to come first before anyone, including you. So take it easy, don't rush into anything and whatever you do, don't have any kind of arguments or disagreements in front of the child. And he certainly should not be assuming any sort of disciplinarian role with the child. Hopefully, you are not living together--just take it slow. Have fun and make sure everyone shows respect.
2006-07-02 14:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on how old your daughter is...maybe when he grows up she will have somone to play with.
I just dont understand what you two might have in common, unless he's a really mature 19 year old.
2006-07-02 14:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what if you was 24 and he was 21? That is not so bad sounding. Howabout 33 and 30 is not that bad either. So what is the deal? Are you ashamed of him? Get over it..
2006-07-02 16:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by Itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋