i got an abortion 3 years ago and now the "anniversary" is comming up and i feel really bad... should i get pregnant again?
2006-07-02 14:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by loadinyamouth h 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Dont get pregnant just because you feel guilty and bad....only get pregnant if that is what you truly want (and only do it for the right reasons)!! Dont do it out of guilt, or this pregnancy could end the same way the last one did....
Dont feel guilty...we all have circumstances in our lives that require us to take actions that we may otherwise would not do....dont worry about it..whats done is done and its been a long time....
2006-07-02 14:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart plz don't feel bad i have had abortions too . sometime in our life will have to do what we need to do . all together i had 3 after i waited one year before i have another baby . but i think about the baby that i did not have all the time but i know one day i will see them again in heaven that they are look down on me and they are not mad at me b/c they know i done what i had to do, because at the time i did not have a job and me and my husband was having finance problem and i just could not bring a child in this world that i knew i could not take care of them
2006-07-02 22:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you really want a child before becoming pregnant again or else, the same thing will happen and God hates abortions.
2006-07-02 22:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by LaLa The Mathematician 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if that is what you want. You shouldn't get pregnant if your just doing it to try and get over the abortion that you had, thats not the right way to do it.
2006-07-02 21:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by kelley2387 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!
It's wrong to use your abortion as an excuse for a future pregnancy. I am sorry you are sade however, use your brain and not your heart to make important decision.
Are you ready for a child now? It takes two to create a baby and if that's what you really want... then good luck.
2006-07-03 02:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by elvine1st 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mother didnt have an abortion when she got pregnant with you, why do it to your child? THAT'S WRONG! your the type of person that doesnt need babies.
2006-07-02 22:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by ILoveMySailor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u will kill ur baby again .why would u get pregnant again? if u feel guilty and u wanna have another baby to raise it up instead of the one u have killed so it is ok get pregnant.
2006-07-02 22:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by sasa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something in memory of the baby...Plant a tree just don;t have another baby out of regret...One can't replace another...
2006-07-02 21:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by *bossy* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel bad. you killled someones life. you are a murderer. You should get pregnant again
2006-07-03 00:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by Karista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are sure you want a child. It is a huge resopnsibility
2006-07-02 21:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋