i have been with my fiance for almost 3 years, and he is the first guy to get me off, but that only happens about once every 3 or 4 months. i greatly enjoy sex, i don't know what is wrong. i have no problem doing it myself, but he can't, i am tired of faking it.
2006-07-02 14:22:52 · 8 answers · asked by sam l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you don't understand it feels amazing, just as good as when i am doing it myself, i just cant get there with him very often no matter how great it feels no matter the foreplay, we have pretty much tried everything, is there anybody out there who has had this problem and knows what i can do to help
2006-07-05 06:06:24 · update #1
Teach him the touchy stuff.Respond if he goes faster and thats what you want. He possibly isn't reading your reactions well but you can show him how.
2006-07-02 14:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Thinker 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heis not doing it right. My lady had the same problem as you. I just tried a few different ways until I found the one she really liked. He has todo the same. You have to tell him what feels best to you. You should really not fake it. You have been faking it all this time and he thinks he is making you happy(pleased) and he really isnt. If you could tell him what feels goodthen he will know. You can also try doggie, that seems to get alot of women off. Hope this helps.
2006-07-02 21:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a fake and be honest. If he truly cares about you he will do what ever he can to give you pleasure. Together you can work this out. Have fun with the experimenting.
2006-07-02 21:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never have faked it in the first place.
2006-07-02 21:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to him privately about it. Then maybe you could suggest foreplay or masturbation or porn before sex. : )
2006-07-02 21:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give my women multiple orgasms. It's all in trying to be tender and giving them what they want.
2006-07-02 21:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor. you have a medical condition that will worsen over time.
2006-07-02 21:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by nemesis60145 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guess he just aint' the one.. want me to try ;)
lol I'm j/k :)
2006-07-02 21:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋