Well I have two problems, 1. My girlfriend cheated on me and got pregnant then the person she got pregnant by she does not want. She said she did it for us but we never talked about it. Now I don't think I want her back. 2. I met someone when my ex-girlfriend was cheating on me and we just decided to be in a relationship after three months. Now all we do is fight,but when we were just friends we were okay. I don't know why things changed. Maybe because my ex cheated.
2006-07-02 14:21:02 · 6 answers · asked by Adrian06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's why I don't mess with bi girls, or any female that's not sure of her identity as a full fledged lesbian. Cheating ain't cool, but for your girl to go cheat with a guy, AND get knocked up to boot, man, oh man, that's so wrong. You need someone that knows who she is and what she wants.
2006-07-02 21:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nate 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do respect you as a lesbian... but honestly speaking right... the reason the relationship is very hard to keep is that because you and your partner doesn't seem to be completing each other... for me, there is 3 essential things of a relationship:
1. added value... you have to be great on your own... and your partner should make you greater... great meaning on your life achievements... your work, your lifestyle... your social life... and so on... 1+1 = 2. you shouldn't go for someone that would subtract you...
2. take the role... one of you should be the 'wise and loving' and the other one should be the 'helper and respectful'. if you have that between you, i'm sure you'll be fine...
3. and the last one... is be TRANSPARENT.. you must not hide anything amongst you... because once they are out in the open.. trust will then be a big issue..
so, if you and your partner are able to do that, i'm sure you'll have a great relationship.. and a long lasting one too...
2006-07-02 21:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lina G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay,
first im not gay --lol
i can understand girls liking
other girls but two guys is wierd!
Besides i gotta girlfriend who needs me,
but anyways it sounds like you just need
to tell your new girl how you feel, and let
her know that the fighting has gotta
stop b/c it's making things hard for
both of you. Just be honest w/ her,
and everything should be good. =]
hope that helps..
jakeey
2006-07-02 21:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob Beck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's against the natural order.
2006-07-02 21:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with john c. find a good church pastor and get some counseling
2006-07-02 21:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by one hot mamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah, Good Luck, Girl.
2006-07-02 21:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by sweets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋