Believe it or not I got this question out of a important number of chicks who think so...
2006-07-02 14:17:42 · 31 answers · asked by arsteatr 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
My opinion of women who have casual sex is the same as my opinion of men who have casual sex.
There's a bit of pity in the way I think of them, but mostly I think they are taking stupid risks and that they don't really know much about living. Sex is enjoyable, but it's important to keep all of the ways sex affects people--emotionally and physically. It seldom just involves "fun".
2006-07-02 14:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by LC 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Doesn't anyone know that whores are the ones on the corner earning cold cash for some guy in a big hat, not the ones giving it away after too many kamakazis on ladies night???
LOL ok aside from the English lesson, I just think it is sad, because I was a very young and very pretty sl*t once too, and I know where it takes you...nowhere. You do it because you need it to feel good about your pretty self, and eventually you stop feeling good about your perhaps slightly less pretty, aging self because you realize that's all those guys ever wanted from you anyway, while you just wanted someone to really love you all along.
OK where did THAT come from, lol? NM, just...no. Sex is fun, anyway. I just realize now how much MORE fun it is when it's something special.
2006-07-02 21:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by cooperslassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Times have changed. With the advent of materials to allow safe sex and for birth control, sex should just be one more fun thing to do.
The concept of being a 'whore' no longer applies because the bad consequences can be avoided with appropriate behavior and use of technologies.
As for the term 'whore', what's wrong with being paid to have sex? People are paid to use their bodies for all sorts of things--construction work, athletes, etc. This is just one more thing. It is the illegality of it that makes bad situations. In places where it is legal you find that the workers have health care, dental care, protection, pay taxes, and are generally safe in their work environment. These left-over religious mores are repressive, and you'd probably do well to start thinking about the whole issue in a different light. That will be difficult, because society as a whole has such a strong bend toward thinking of it in a bad light--but, things do need to change, and this topic is a bastion.
2006-07-02 21:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, they are just enjoying themselves...just be careful and it's all good! The only thing to remember is that afterwards some guys don't understand that a woman is actually having casual sex...they don't realize it was just a fun thing and now it's over...but I think it's cool when a woman is confident enough to have casual sex. I think most women want to, but are afraid of judgement or that they can't handle it.
2006-07-02 22:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by 1n51ght 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, women who believe in casual sex are not whores. I mean it's only right to let them have pleasure without the grief and drama of a relationship.
2006-07-02 21:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Alex M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after reading all the answers first i had to stop and think about it and alot of people wont feel me on this but as a woman who has casual sex i feel like i should speak on this one. I have casual sex but I dont have sex with a bunch of differant guys, I have male friends whom i call friends with benefits. And sometimes i just have sex to get off but if i been messin around with a man for a long time and i need something from him, he should provide it for me cus i been sleeping with him all this time, so its really not in exchange for things, it like "I did u a favor so now I need a favor" Now alot of people are like "why dont u just get a boyfriend/husband" or whatever and everyone i know who is in a relationship have way too much drama and i dont need it, its easier for me to call u when i need u and not be bothered with u when i dont.
2006-07-02 22:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by BlkBeauty24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if they profit from it. They have to make arrangements in advance. If they ask for money or anything up front . Yes
If they go to dinner and have sex afterward . NO Whore
If you GIVE them a giftthat is not asked for NO Whore
If thay ask for something in exchange for sex, Like an engagement ring, house, car Yes whore.
2006-07-02 21:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Whores get paid for their services.
Women who like to have casual sex are just that, women who like to have casual sex.
Will the stupid double standard never fing die?
2006-07-02 21:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a required part of happiness. Ppl who aren't as happy as others usually come up with some reason not to like it. So In some eyes they probably are. I think they're obviously just having a good time. As long as you don't look @ my man, no prob!
2006-07-02 21:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by North of Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I think anybody...male or female..that has "casual sex" are irresponsible...STD's, Aids and all. What's the name for men who have "casual sex" anyway. Keep safe...do NOT have "casual sex"...use condoms...talk with any potential partner about sexually transmitted disease...get an aids test..demand that any partner does too. That's about it. Live long...take responsibility.
2006-07-02 21:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by twinkles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋