2006-07-02 14:02:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Yes, you should break it off, and find someone that would accept God's gift with open arms. A child should be your most treasured possession, the thing both parents love more than anything else in the whole world. If you have a child with someone that does not want a child, what kind of relationship will this child have with a father that never wanted him/her in the first place.
2006-07-02 14:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by miss c. 1 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Yes, I think you should if you really truly want kids some day. If he never wants kids it is going to put a strain on the relationship....if he is dead set against it and you are dead set on having kids, then even if one of you gets your way, the other is going to be unhappy and resentful and the relationship probably wont last anyway....so i would cut it off now before you waste any more time.....but first give him a little time, he might come around to the idea....good luck!! =)
2006-07-02 14:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him about this and understand why he does not want children. And maybe you both can come to another decision. Let him know that you might leave him if he does not change his mind. You do not need to miss out on something that precious. If he does not change his mind after a little time then you should for sure leave him. He is not worth you missing out on life with children. No one is. GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-03 00:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Nevaeh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should and here's why. deciding to have kids is a big decision. it's not like "which kind of ice cream do you like". you know he does not want to have kids. if you get married, you can't turn back around and force him to have them, because you knew before you got married that he didn't want them in the first place. many people do that. they say "oh, i'm sure he'll change once we're married". then you'll want kids, just like you stated in the questionand you'll wonder why he doesn't want them. but you'll forghet that you knew from the begining that he didn't want them. so, point being, decisions this big (money, kids, religion), if you don't agree before marriage, you won't agree after. find someone with the same values like yours. trust me, marriage is hard enough. don't get into it with problems on your plate already.
2006-07-02 15:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know why he is so sure that he doesn't want children? Maybe he needs to talk about his fears or is he just selfish? If you know that you do want children, and once you talk it out with him, are sure that he does not, then you probably need to find a partner who will suit you better. You don't want to miss out on something so important to you and if you were to accidentally become pregnant with this man, then what? Would he resent you?
2006-07-02 14:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't break up with him . because my husband told me that he did not want no more kids that he only want our daughter and i got pregant again and he told me that he did not want the baby so i stay with him and i had the baby what was a little boy and u know he came up to the hospital after i had the baby and he named the baby after him and now my baby is almost two and my husband loves him to death . so i would not break up i will stay with him and get pregant believe me after he see the baby after thing will change
2006-07-02 15:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't believe that either of you will change your mind, then, yes, you need to break it off. Neither of you will be happy if you have such different goals in such a basic area.
2006-07-03 02:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well , are you going to marry this guy, if not then not to worry if he is not the father of your children. You will find someone who wants both you AND the children and my guess is you will probably be much happier in the long run.
2006-07-02 14:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by galynda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men sometimes say they don't want kids but they seem to change their way of thinking so just stick around to find out if he is going to change his mind or not that's if you really love him..
2006-07-02 14:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if u really want kids...but id first give it some time...u never know he might change his mind.
2006-07-02 14:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by Craigs Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋