I wasnt very good at making friends cause I was different, So I totally changed myself so I could at least pretend to be something I'm not, But now I am sick of doing that I want to show my friends who I really am but I dont know how. I am afraid that if they dont like who I really am I will lose them.
2006-07-02 13:53:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and Its not like I lied I just acted different, I am a tomboy and that is why people dont like me for who I am. So yeah
2006-07-02 14:10:13 · update #1
your friends dont really know the real u? simple.. they'r not your real friends
2006-07-02 14:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by POCOYO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair to say they were not your friends if they do not accept you. They became friends with who they thought you were. So if they dont accept the new you, then dont act surprised. For example, let someone pretend to be a rocker chick and dye their hair and everything and made rocker friends. The rocker ppl became friends with teh rocker chick. Then she revealed that she is actually a book worm/good girl. IF they dont like her anymroe doesnt mean they are not real friends. They liked the rocker girl not the book worm girl. They were 'real' friends with the rocker girl.
2006-07-02 21:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Trinity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is this. sit him down and tell him your different then what he thought you where. its very good to be different and you couldn't and you shouldn't feel like you should change to make other people like you. go out and find other new people. good luck mate if you need a friend you can always talk talk to me..
2006-07-02 21:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by J,J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start acting dif and if they relize explain ure problem to them. or just tell them 1st that it was hard 4 u to make frends and you'd like to show them the real you. and if they get mad they arent good frends.
2006-07-02 20:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by gemiegal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, learn the lesson. You lied once and now the consequences come upon you. That is good. You have a chance to learn. Never lie again.
2006-07-02 20:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by vahucel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are really your friends you won't lose them. You should have just been yourself from the beginning.
2006-07-02 20:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by amira s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them and act like yourself.
2006-07-02 20:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they r really ur friends then they will not care but if they do then screw them always be ur self and know they were know good for u any way
2006-07-02 20:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my i keep it real I HAVE ALOT OF ASSOCIATES BUT ONE OR TWO REAL FRIEND WHO ARE MY BEST FRIENDS THEY R THERE 4 ME WHEN I AM DOWN SO DONT BE SOMETHING UR NOT CUZ IF THEY REALLY WERE UR FRIENDS THEY WOULD EXCEPT U FOR WHO U ARE AND IF THEY DONT SCREW THEM
2006-07-02 21:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act it.
2006-07-02 20:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by Fez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋