Although I dont want a reconciliation with her, I need to know why I find my Ex wife more attractive now, than when we were married? Is it just a phase?
2006-07-02 13:52:27 · 12 answers · asked by mr_shandypants 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i believe in the saying that you only realized how important the person in once he's or she's gone :) its as simple as that...lol...you let her go, now, you're remembeing how things are with her..having second thoughts? lol..if there's a chance, woo her back..who knows its sweeter the second time around..that is is she'll take u back..lol..
2006-07-09 14:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by just me:) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The trivia of every day living sounds the death knell for love and romance. It's much easier to be attracted to someone if you're not in their company during all the time.
2006-07-02 16:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by CeeVee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phrase "we always want what we can't have" explains this.
When you were married and living together you knew you had her, now tho the situation is different she is not in a relationship with you now and that makes her more interesting and in return more exciting.
2006-07-02 14:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you need the space and friendship grows a lot faster when you give it time and space to grow.If its a phase it will turn into an obsession.
2006-07-11 03:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an old girlfriend of mine. When she was good, she was good - when she was bad, she was real bad. Maybe you are attracted to good things about her, but can't take the bad things anymore.
2006-07-02 14:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by da fada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a phase. The unobtainable. But if you really love her do not lose hope....... Good luck!
2006-07-02 14:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by BackMan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting what you can't have, and remembering the good things but not the bad. It's normal but you'll move on soon.
2006-07-02 14:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Katkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with other posters. You are now hankering after the unobtainable. My guess is that she has found someone else and you don't like it.
2006-07-11 09:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine another man doing her and listen to Eamon FUUHDWB!
2006-07-02 16:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by James c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We only understand how beautiful they are when we lose them.
2006-07-02 21:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋