I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 18 and i want to spend the rest of my life with him and he says the same about me! We have been together for 4 months now and i gave my virginity to him! I love him with all my heart and I can't imagine that ever changing but we are still so young i'm afraid it will and my gardian says we can't see each other now and that's really hard cause now we just have e-mail! There is a chance that we will be able to see each other again but it might take a very long time! I'm scared and not sure what to do! Help me!
2006-07-02 13:49:41 · 11 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I may just be 15 but didn't ppl used to fall in love when they were in highschool and stay together for the rest of there lifes maybe there is something to that! There is a high % of ppl that get married that divorce and i come from a divorced family! I may be 15 but i know what i feel and i know i have recently been taken out of an abusive home and have really crappy self esteem and i know that my boyfriend is the only person in the world that makes me feel like i mean something and make sit so i'm not afraid anymore!
2006-07-02 13:57:02 · update #1
i already had sex with him that's not my problem he has stayed with me long after it and i'm not afriad of that ever changing i'm afriadn of what my gardian is doing and waht that will do to our relationship and how to handle that issue wothout landing him in jail!
2006-07-02 13:59:53 · update #2
when i was your age a lil younger i was in the same situation.its just how life goes .the chances are that you most likey wont spend the rest of your lifes together and the fact that you guys cant see each other right now doesnt make this any easier .i dont know what to say your going to feel the way you feel no matter what any1 on here says to you but i've been there and i know that type of love and i know how you feel .i felt the same way about my first real boyfriend i felt that i would die without him i felt that i wouldnt be able to make love to anyone else for the rest of my life we where together on and off for 4 years alot of pain and alot of happy moments .the relationship ended and im with someone else now this is just the way life goes enjoy it while your in this kinda love because chnaces are you really wont ever feel this kinda of young love again but no matter what happens you will learn alot and grow as a person and take watever you learn from this relationship on to the next .stay with him try and work with what you have but when or if this relationship ends just remember that its not the end of the world and you will get over this
2006-07-02 13:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saying that your too young is stupid... If you think you both are in love then wait for him... But if you do and it doesn't turn out the way you want then you have missed out in a big part of your life... that you will never get back. You have to think about both sides of weather it turns out the way you plan or doesn't and then make your decision. I know that I can promise you that there will be others... He is not the only guy that will ever love you. Those others just need a chance to start loving you, some will take it and many will fake it. Be aware of who they are before you get involved. Thats all the advice I can give you. I've been where you are and I'm in a good place in my life without that person I supposebly "knew" I loved and wanted to spend the rest of my life with, I'm 19 now. You'll be fine without him, thats what I wanted to tell you.
2006-07-02 21:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by Late-Nite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 15 you said? Give it about...hmmm....4 months, and you won't even remember his name. Sorry to burst your bubble. Think about it like this...the average age for marriage right now is 28, almost 30. That means, that if you are like most, and marry at about 30, you will have (in time wise) lived your life all over again. Does that make sense? Early love is consuming...just don't get caught up in it.
2006-07-02 20:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by joyfulnoise83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear,you are still young and your future is more important than sex.Think about your study.At the same time you can still be friend with your 'boyfriend' till both of you finish study and get a good job and ready to marry.Anytime your mind can change because so many guys that maybe better than your boyfriend .The same thing can happen to him,because so many girls out there.Don't be sad!
2006-07-02 21:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i think that if you really and utterly love him then screw whatever anyone says go for it but you should also think about it you probably have three years to meet somebody else and youve only been going out for two months . i have a fried that said the same thing but she went out with her boyfriend for about six or seven months and then they broke up and now he thinks shes retarted and she is moving half way because of it
2006-07-02 20:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by barbpoloplyr421ostrchsrule!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait!
2006-07-02 20:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooooooooooowwwwwwwwwwww...
i thing u are too younger to understand what is love..
wait until 18...
2006-07-04 17:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by domino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents just saved that guy the trouble of breaking up with you
2006-07-02 20:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not in love!! you are 15!! stay in school.
2006-07-02 20:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by Babygirl86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT 4 MONTHS!!!!! HOLY SH!T ARE YOU STUPID???????IT WILL NEVER LAST YOUR TOO YOUNG ALL HE WANTS IS SOME @SS.THEN HE WILL BE GONE USE YOUR HEAD GIRL.
2006-07-02 20:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by petasucks101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋