What do you do if your girlfriend loves you and you love her and you both want to get married, but shes afriad that if she gets married at a young age (18) then it will make it harder on her and it won't work.
2006-07-02 13:27:05 · 18 answers · asked by Kyle Hall 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i beleive that life is really too short to quibble over the minor stuff. i am telling ya right now that your age has nothing to do with whether or not you will divorce later on because i know soooo many people that waited and waited...and guess what? it didn't make a difference- either you will make it or you won't. just be HAPPY now. there aren't even guarantees that you will live to be older.
2006-07-02 13:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by ladyofthehollow 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Getting married at a young age is dangerous, she's right to worry. What's the rush? If it's meant to be, then wait a few years to tie the knot.
People go through lots and lots of changes at her age (women seem to hit a psycho stage at about 19). If the two of you can ride out the changes together before getting married, then you can be even more confident that your relationship will last.
2006-07-02 20:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone, if you marry her at 18, you will not let her live much, and after 2 or 3 years of marriage she will resent you for not allowing her to experience life.
2006-07-02 20:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation with my boyfriend we met online on myspace and we met in person and everything and now were totally in love and he asked me to marry him im afraid but i said yes anyways u can still ask her but u guys can wait till u r both actually ready to marry were doing dat if u like more info here's my email address jmichellegardner i'll help u out more if u like
2006-07-02 20:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be harder on her. I would wait till we had enough money to by everything we needed to last a while. Then I would also wait to get a good paying job.
2006-07-02 20:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by babygurl12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think of that too soon. You should think of goals or school, so then if you do get married those goals can help your marriage way better
2006-07-02 20:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ithink you should wait until you BOTH are 10000% sure that is what you are comfortable with and that is the best next step for you both.
2006-07-02 20:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then wait, don't force her, that can only ruin the relationship.If your love is strong enough, then you should be able to wait. Remember, your wedding is only a symbol, weather you dedicate your life to her, or not, is on you.
2006-07-02 20:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by candy no's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY WOULD YOU EVEN CONSIDER GETTING MARRIED AT THAT YOUNG OF AGE?????YOU WOULD MOST LIKELY END UP DIVORCED,PAYING CHILD SUPPORT,AND WORKING A DEAD END JOB FOR THE NEXT15 YEARS. DONT BE STUPID.
2006-07-02 20:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by petasucks101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope that my boyfriend respected how i felt and I would hope we both sat down and thought long and hard about if it is a good idea or not.
2006-07-02 20:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by mia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋