I don’t now if I am expecting to much or something is wrong with me? My bf and I been together for about 8 month we don’t see each other a lot because of school and work, we see each other at work but after work I go to school, if we see each other I go to his place and we have sex and that is it. He can’t come to my house because my mother won’t like him so he didn’t meet her. So on Friday it was my best friends b-day so I couldn’t go see him, and on sturdy I was suppose to see him but my sister got an accident so I went to see her to the hospital and I told him I was calling him and telling him what was going on, but he seems not to care, and I called him back that night to just talk to him and he was cleaning up and he said he will call me back which he never did. my Question is that he didn’t even call me to ask how my sister was doing if she was ok? He didn’t call me all day today I had my phone on me all day all my friends were calling to ask. And I don’t want to call him and explain my self is he ignorant or WHAT? And if he call me what should I say? Please help me answer me
2006-07-02 13:15:23 · 7 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you see him at work and he still ignores you,and he's not concerned about the well being of your family or interested in meeting them-reguardless of how your Mother may feel about him--when you get together and" have sex and that is it",then he is only interested in sex.
After 8 months you should be making love,not having sex---there is a difference between the two
2006-07-02 13:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by roninrkb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this is something you have to talk to your man about. He is probably pissed off and when most people are pissed they only care and concern about one person, himself or herself. If he doesnt call back you should call him and put on a conversation like you would normally do if nothing was wrong. This might get his mind off the subject but you should ask him if hes ok at some point during the conversation and not keep on asking him what is wrong with him. Make sure you have an open mind and dont act out the conversation and know where it is going because that wil only lead you one way. Though the guy should be over it you should put yourself in his shoes. If he has a solid reason and understanding forgive him or talk it out, but if it is a dumb reason to you talk to him about why he did it and try to talk to him because all he probably needs is your comfort. and cant you go to his house? Dont try to ask one of his friends but use it as a last resort
2006-07-02 13:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by LuCKyNUmBeRShaDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just using you for sex, he doesnt want the seriousness of a real relationship thats why he never see's you outside of sex and didnt care about what was going on in your life, the only thing he cared about was that because you had a something serious happen within your family that stopped you from being available for sex and he could find someone else would he could give it to him just as easily, he has realized this and doesnt want to lead you on into thinking that the relationship was more than it actually was so thats why he is not calling you anymore......
2006-07-02 13:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just using you for sex.. sorry
2006-07-02 13:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his *** to the curve and down the street to the other curve!!!!!
2006-07-02 13:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him....i dont see d point of this relationship....
2006-07-02 13:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ AnGeL ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just need you for sexual favors.
2006-07-02 13:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by firewall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋