He has a son with his ex wife, and they share him. When he gets him for 3 weeks or so, we always fight. He doesn't know that he should always take some time off every once in a while, to do something nice with me. Am i wrong? I really feel it is important to have us time without the baby always being there to cry when we touch... Some one help. It might also be because i am 7 months pregnant also.
2006-07-02 13:09:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you guys are planning on getting married, you have to accept his child as your own and he also needs to grow up and realize he has another family to help raise. If he can not understand that is it really worth being with him? Best of luck
2006-07-02 13:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Minn_Girl_16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't try and make him choose you over his son... that is just f*cked up. He has you everyday, he doesn't have his son everyday. It is very selfish of you to try and make him chose. You have plenty of time to do things together WHEN HIS SON IS NOT THERE! You should be ashamed of yourself. Especially for causing fights with his son there. He will know (the son) that you're fighting because of him and will make him feel bad. Grow the hell up. Sorry if this offends, it just irritates me when people are so selfish when children are involved. Good luck.
2006-07-02 20:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to accept his child. You will have a child with him soon and you will experience the bond between a child and a parent. Wait till you have your child there will be even less time for the two of you.
2006-07-02 20:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Desiree S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you selfish in every sense of the word? I don't envy your child or your fiance. Relationships and parenting are about sacrifice; you're obviously not ready for either.
2006-07-04 15:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you talked to him ,you shouldn't be stressed out you need to take care of your self
maybe if you made less time for him he would take notice
2006-07-02 20:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by evian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋