i have a wife
i want her more then my wife
she doesn't have a husband
and shes really hot
2006-07-02 13:07:38 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is one hot piece of *** worth losing your marraige over? Its perfectly natural to be attracted to other people but acting on that is completely disrespectful to your wife and the vows you took to be faithful. Are you attracted to your wife? How is your sex life? When was the last time you did something really nice and unexpected for her? When was the last time she did something like that for you? If its boredom that has happened it can be fixed! You need to talk to your wife and find a way to make things sizzle again. You might be surprised to find out your wife probably has those types of thoughts about other men. You owe it yourself and your marriage before you go do something that you could regret forever. Talk to your wife about it. Tell her in a nice way say something like this
"Hey Honey, I have been thinking and I was wondering if maybe you feel like things lately have been a little routine. I miss the days where we were ............ Lets see if we can try and spice things up a bit, I know you probably feel the same way, any suggestions?"
It doesnt have to be excatly like that just go about it in an objective way that does not place blame. Just for your sake and your wife's if you really love her dont cheat.
Go check out ediets.com they have so many great articles about love and relationships and sex and I remember a question almost exactly like yours and the experts advice was just dont.
2006-07-02 13:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah J 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Get counseling. Did those vows mean anything to you when you took them? Then honor them! Honor your wife. Stop looking around and focus on your wife. Do everything you can to remember why you fell in love with her. This is your marriage you are talking about. Divorce sounds easy, but it's just the beginning of a long, hard road. Based on experience, it would be easier to forget about this other woman.
If that isn't enough, then look at it from this angle... if this other woman knows you're married and still fools around with you... what makes you think that she isn't also doing several others? It's just a one-night stand and not worth it.
2006-07-02 15:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Karen T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have no moral fiber. You married this girl and should sitck with her. If you have no children then I sugest that you should leave you wife and take up with the hot chick at work. That way your wife doesn't waste all of her life with a fuchstick like you! That would be the honest thing to do.
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2006-07-02 18:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How shallow! She is HOT...Well, your wife, the woman you made a commitment to, till death do you part, for better or worse ....(do you remember?) was also probably "HOT" too then.
A successful, exciting, and fulfilling relationship takes a lot of hard work, it also takes a commitment and self control in order to maintain faith-fullness. There will be plenty of days and moments when one may not be as physically attractive, and days when you leave to go to work, she did not look too hot and the two of you have been fighting and fussing the past couple of days....The "HOT" co-worker, that's getting your ---- hard, is simply that. A co-worker (no good) and a stimulate for one of your physical body organs. Your wife...if you maintain her as that, has the capability of stimulating so much more...your emotional being, your future...together and as individuals. Think about...really. Put your junk back in your pants...take a walk to the parking lot and back down memory lane to the real "HOT" one.
2006-07-02 15:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by lewars5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Get divorced immediately since you've already broken your marriage vows by desiring another. Your poor wife.
2. What make you think a single girl would want a married guy hitting on her. That would be insulting if it were me.
3. If she's hot then she probably has a boyfriend
2006-07-02 13:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called temptation. This probably wasn't the first time you were tempted and certainly won't be the last. You're human and there are lots of attractive people around.
Don't do anything with this girl. Just look at the ring on your finger and remember the good times you've had and will continue to have with your wife.
2006-07-02 13:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be really messed up to cheat on your wife, especially if you have kids. Your kids will resent you for it. It's only a lust thing with the chick at work, let it be. Plus, if you have sex with her, it will be really weird at work between the two of you. If you really have no love for your wife anymore, get a divorce. What has she done to deserve the hurt you're about to give her?
2006-07-02 13:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by mommysboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u better really think about it OK so you nail her then what if you stay with your wife you will have to live with guilt which will eat at you your wife finds out divorces you take everything or keeps you and will throw it in your face never trust you again making your life a living hell you divorce her then that one drops you if you are unhappy in your marriage get a divorces first then go for it after it finally
2006-07-02 13:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by frog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be married if you can't control yourself. Are you willing to throw your marriage away for a piece of a**? What would it do to your wife? It would break her heart. If you decide to cheat on her, then get a divorce, your wife deserves better than that.
2006-07-02 13:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by angib18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved your wife and happy with her the woman at work wouldnt every cause you to think about her in that way cause your love and respect for your wife would be the power in your life to resist the temtation of that person~ I think your a jerk and your wife can do better!
2006-07-02 14:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mellissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋