Just wondering why married men feel it is neccesary to target me. I am married, even before I was married they did this.
2006-07-02 13:03:11 · 16 answers · asked by luv g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some Married Men just like to hit on women anyway. Most of them need to know that they still "have" it. That they can still get a woman to look at them or talk to them or even go home w/ him.
2006-07-02 13:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl! I wonder the same thing!
It just boggles my mind. I know some people on here are saying you probably acting or looking like a sl*t, but I don't do these things and married men hit on me, sometimes in front of their wives!
I wouldn't cheat with anyone (I don't want a part time lover at all), but I've wondered this same thing.
I don't know what to tell you. I'm really easy going and nice (I'm from the midwest that's the way I was raised to be) but I think some men take that as flirting and if things ain't so great at home they gravitate to that.
2006-07-02 15:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by tolula 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either you are extremely attractive or somehow somewhere the rumor mill has you labeled an "easy" target, best advice is enjoy it while it lasts but dont do something stupid to screw up your marriage. Just because these married guys are stupid, dont lower yourself into playing their childish games. Remember you are better then them and you have too much to lose, and it will probably continue for some time to come but dont give them reason to keep trying. good luck and be strong
2006-07-02 13:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably good looking, but also you MIGHT be sending signals. I have no idea without more information, but if you are very friendly they could be misconceiving this as flirtation.
Also, it is possible that you are wrong, and just a bit full of yourself.
These are honest answers, I have no idea, probably it is because you are good looking, but the others are possibilities to consider. Don't kill the messenger, etc. etc.
2006-07-02 13:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are just cursed with a beautiful face and body....or maybe you give off a vibe that encourages this. It could be your body language, the way you dress, or things you say.
2006-07-02 13:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by cloud9 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are "advertising" in some way. . . by how you dress, how you act, how you talk. You are "advertising" that you might be available. Keep it simple-- dress like a lady, talk and walk like a lady, and act like a MARRIED lady (a little dignity and modesty can't hurt).
2006-07-02 13:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mayb you are really hot and they cant help themselves or mayb its the signals you send out or mayb you might b acting kind of like a sl*t and not relizing it
2006-07-02 13:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that their attracted to you and there might be less sexual contact with their own wife.
2006-07-02 13:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by babygurl12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously you're fat, ugly, like women only, and only bowl on Thursday nights...!
2006-07-02 13:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit acting like a whore.
2006-07-02 13:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by mommysboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋