i've been dating a guy for 5 mnths. he's with this woman for 6 yrs. 4 yrs ago, she was pregnant n it wasn't his kid! he stayed w/ her bc the kid had no father. back 2 the story, he told me that he's going 2 leave her bc he's in love with me. i respected him when he told me he can't walk away from the house right now b/c he wanted to make sure the child was ok before he left. last mnth he freely told her that he cheated on her, something that never happened before. (he's not a cheater or lier, couldn't live like that). he told her that he's in love with me, still seeing me. he did bc she called me cursing. Although the cheating, she still wants 2 be w/ him. they don't even sleep 2gethr. he's on the phone w/ me evry night in his own sheets on his own bed! It's been 5 mnths, i see him every day, deep in love with him, husband material but i'm afraid that i might just get my heart broken. i'm such a good hearted person, never wishing any harm 2 any1, not even his girl. What do you think?
2006-07-02 13:02:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
leave him alone untill he gets himself settled, moved out and broken up from the other woman, you say he's husband material but in actuality he is not, he has been living with a woman and didnt have enough guts to tell her that he was done with her because of the child, starts seeing you, makes no effort to move out and cant have respect enough for the women to not cheat on her on communicate with her what is going on in the first place, the child is stuck in the middle at the moment, but you said he stays because of the kid, if he knew that things were going downhill in the relationship he could of atleast broken it off sooner without letting the kid get closely attached.......
2006-07-02 13:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would pray about that sit,its not a perfect world,but you have to wonder if he truly loves her and is just walking away from his problems when he's with you. let him leave her find his own place and then make a go of it. good luck
2006-07-02 13:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by evian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me get this straight, you believe all this?
You need to check your facts, honey, you are being DECEIVED.
He would have already left if he were telling you the truth. . . he isn't.
2006-07-02 13:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont take a step b4 he really gives u prove that he has left his wife.......
2006-07-02 13:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ AnGeL ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a bunch of bull****
2006-07-02 13:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by LnsmCa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋