she is getting me mad?

Question

my friend alicia is starting to get me very very mad everytime that we im each other she only talks online to say bad thigs to me(like your so fat and your a freak and stuff like that) and it realy hurts my fealings.wat should i do

Answer 1

She's obviously just JEALOUS of you. It's clear that she is, why else would she mention something as cruel as that? She wants to lower your self esteem and the only way she knows how to do that is by breaking down your ego to make you feel ugly. She wants you to feel unattractive in order for you to have insecurity issues like her. She is not happy with herself, b/c if she was she wouldn't feel the need to make fun of her own 'friend' to feel better about herself. Take it as a flattering case b/c she is admring your looks, she's envioous/jealous.
P.S. She is not a real friend, you don't need to associate with anyone that will try to belittle you. Get away from the jealous girl.

Answer 2

If she really was your friend she wouldn't be calling you fat and stuff. You need to sit down somewhere (like go to the beach or a restaurant) and say : Alicia you've been acting weird towards me lately is something going on? Because I don't know if you realize it but when you call me_____ it really hurts me and makes me feel like you're not really my friend. I am asking you right now to stop because if you are truly my friend you will and if you're not you won't. I can't be friends with someone who puts me down so much, so if you don't stop then we won't be friends. Then see what she says. Keep it short, simple and don't get mad.
Also don't act confrontational say that you didn't want to offend her with saying that. And ask her if she has reason to be mean to you. Maybe she takes her feelings out on you because something is going on in her life you don't know about. Maybe she doesn't even know she is doing it.

Answer 3

It's pretty simple wat you should do. Forget her! If she's saying all of that stuff about you then she must not be your friend. Friends never put each other down like that.Why would someone who is your''friend'' say something like that?That's just toooo mean. Hang out with someone else.And when she asks why you don't hang out with her,or im her anymore, just tell her that You were to much of a ''fat freak'' (not really) to hang out with her.That'll teach her something,hopefully!!

Answer 4

Try talking to her and find out why she is doing it.
Maybe it's her way of protecting her feelings.
Have you done anything to cause this behavior?
If not and she will not quit find a new Friend.
I friend should not say bad things about you nor make you feel bad about yourself.

Answer 5

You should tell her how u feel and ask her if she has any bad thing to tell it to ur face rater than over the computer becauz that not rite.if she ur friend she should not be treating u this way.

Answer 6

ignore her. i kno it may be hard but the only 1 who can judge u is god!!! if she talks this way about u then she isnt ur friend!!!

Answer 7

You have a real nice friend there... I'd say find a new friend.

Answer 8

tell her that you dont like it when she says stuff like that. if she doesnt care then she isnt a real friend.

Answer 9

if shes like that just ignore her i could be your friend go to my profile and click on my smiley and we can chat if you want to or email me

Answer 10

Ask her why she is being so mean and try to work it out. Tell her how it makes you feel. Hey IM me at [e-mail] and ill tell you exactly wat to do