2006-07-02 12:38:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he'd cheat on his wife to be with you..then there's no reason why you should expect him not to cheat on you with someone else.
2006-07-02 14:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The REASON that few to no people ever marry the person they had an affair with,
no matter HOW hot and heavy it was
is because it was only about LUST.
99.9% of all affairs lack the elements of long lasting love, which include Real Trust, Best-Friends, Respect, and wanting just one partner/commitment.
Think about that, how can you EVER
TRUST someone that CHEATED with you.
You know deep in your heart that they will cheat on you too some day.
That's part of being best-friends too. Best-friends just don't hurt each other like that.
The Respect part is clear as glass....
Cheaters don't have a clue how to make ANY relationship work now, or in the future.
Affairs don't last.
My Daddy knew an old man that was married to a woman that was very plain, and probably always was. He asked the old man, why he stayed with such a plain woman all these years.
The old man grinned at him, with an all knowing look, and said:
"Looks don't last. Cookin' do !!!"
I wish you true love
stw
2006-07-02 19:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married the man that had the affair. We have been together eight years, married for four years and have two children together. I still love him to this day. We are happy. The only issues is his other kids but we work through that.
2006-07-02 20:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married to the man i had an affair with for 17 years now,, we lived together for 3 years before marrying, if i had to do it all over again I WOULDN'T,, we never got the chance to date or get to know each other as a couple, he always has had a trust issue with me, i trusted him completely until he cheated i remained faithful until about 6 months ago
2006-07-02 19:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did. I started having the affair after i realized that I was unhappy and she was not going to work with me to fix it. doesn't excuse my actions. What i did was wrong. I can honestly say we never touched each other until after i left. But we were having the affair in our hearts and we both knew it. I hope this helps.
2006-07-02 19:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by badgerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am married to a man i had a affair with.it was great the first two years,but now i am wishing i could go back,we have been married 5 yrs.if you haven`t married yet,please stop and think about it.
2006-07-02 19:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by scooby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Ex husband did.....but the old saying is ..."Once a cheat, always a cheat!" She cheated on her husband with another 2 guys, and then with him....so it only a matter of time til......cheating again.....HA HA they will both get what they deserve!!
2006-07-02 19:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by brat71825 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistics prove that it NEVER works out.
2006-07-02 20:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by mommysboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it didn't. Save yourself the time and heart-ache.
2006-07-02 19:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad did. Not so good. She is a lunatic!!! And I am not kidding. She is on disability for mental!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-02 19:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by ladysodivine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋