I wont to get rid of my unborn child,what u think about that, i really don't have a pormble with keeping it,

Question

but i just got out of high school and i'm lookin for the best for both of us do undrestand where im comin from

Answer 1

you sound like your in 6th grade, did you pass english or spelling class? im guessing not. you really sound ignorant, please give the baby to a good home, smart educated people or atleast someone who finished middle schoool. really, you mispelled every word.

Answer 2

I think that once someone gets pregnant that it is her responsibility to nurture the baby throughout her pregnancy. If you know that you don't the child, then you should put him/her up for adoption. The baby is growing inside you at an incredible rate, and I don't think that it is our right to take the life of the unborn baby because he/she may be an inconvenience to you.
I have three boys ages 8, 4 1/2, and 8 months old and I don't know how I could ever live without them. I married my husband when I was 18, the summer after I graduated from high school. I got pregnant with my oldest son when I was 19, had him when I was 20. It is a huge responsibility, but I'm telling you that if you just give your baby a chance at life that you won't regret it. The love your child will give you is unconditional and never ending! The first time you look into your baby's eyes will be the greatest moment of your life. It will be love at 1st sight!
YOU are the best thing for your baby....and although it may be difficult at times, it is well worth it. You'll know what I mean if you decide to keep the baby. If you decide you don't want it, then please don't kill that precious little baby...put it up for adoption.
I will pray that you find the right answer.

Answer 3

If you don't have a problem with keeping YOUR offspring, the fruit of YOUR loins and a person who is going to love you forever, completely unconditionally when he or she is 1 month, 1 year, 10 years, 14 years old, a new graduate, a 21 year old, a 30 year old, et cetera, then please plan to do all you can to take care of this precious gift. God meant for babies to be raised by their mothers. Most of us didn't have it easy but also most of us didn't regret keeping and raising our babies. You can do it and still have a good life. It is all about determination, not the fact that you are responsible for not just one, but two. You can do anything you set your mind and heart to do. Screw the people talking about your spelling. God bless you and your baby. I can help you if you like. I am a good woman and was a single mom for many years until I was married. Do what you feel the most peace about. I trust that is the right thing. Hope to hear from you, but either way, I pray God's abundant blessings upon you. Take good care.

Answer 4

are u married? i hate to say this but it was very unwise of you to go and have a child right out of highschool..... a very poor choice. either way, unfortunately things wont go well for u.

getting an abortion is heartwrenching for mothers who truly love their baby. it will weigh heavily on u for the rest of your life.

keeping the baby could also pose a problem for u and the father though. think about school. what will u do? will this get in the way of schooling........

many girls have this happen to them. i suggest counseling or call one of those hotlines

unfortunately i cant say i know where ur coming from because u will probably regret having sex so young for the rest of ur life.

if u have no problem keeping it though.........keep it. you should read some stories of women who were in the same situation and regret getting an abortion

have u considered putting it up for adoption? this seems liek a fairly good alternative to an abortion. this can also be heart wrenching, but u also have to think of whats best for the baby.

Answer 5

As one who got pregnant as a freshman in college....my suggestion is to have the baby and give it up for adoption. Several people have said that you would regret having an abortion. I guess that depends on your convictions. I had an abortion and 8 years later I can still tell every detail of the day I had the abortion and the next few days that followed. There are a lot of loving, good people who are desperately trying to have a baby and can't. Give them a chance to raise your baby in a loving, caring, mature environment. They also might be willing to help you pay for some of the expenses if you agree to them adopting your baby.

Answer 6

If you are unsure now, just wait and see how you feel later.

You know you can take a new born to any hospital and just say you want to turnover the child. They don't ask your name or call police or anything (they figure it's better than people tossing babies in the trash) What would be helpful if before you go to the hospital you wrote out a health history.
Like if anyone in the family diabetic, heart problems,allergies etc. just for the hospital to have some medical background

Answer 7

Seriously, if you dont' want to abort it, than put it up for adoption. If your just out of highschool than you likely are right in thinking about the best for everyone. Unless you or the father is making a good enough wage to keep you and the baby in a decent standard of living and you can treat/care for a child properly and have lots of support from family/friends.......adoption or abortion.

Don't let people make you feel bad for doing either. I was adopted and I don't think it has any real bearing on my life. My birth mother was ...i think 16 or so when she had me. She knew she couldn't care for me and gave me up. My parents are great and the adoption agencies make sure the baby is going to get a good home.

Also, don't let people make you feel bad about aborting either. It's your choice and I personally don't consider it killing someone. Their not even born yet, how can you kill them?

Answer 8

What ever you end up doing, make sure that after all is said and done you are on birth control for the future. It's a hard thing to be pregnant with a child at any age, it's even harder to be making these decisions when you are young and overwhelmed. Make sure you take care of yourself and don't get into this situation again.

Take care, be good and take comfort in your decision. That is what Roe v. Wade was about, your right to make the choice.

Answer 9

wee thats the issue.u have sex with boys then when u get pregnant u look for a way to get u rid of ur baby. r u going to kill a human being just to be a happy girl and to have fun again with somebody else. sorry but let me say u r selfish girl. if u know how they cut the baby pieces and how much he suffers through the abortion u will never ever let urself think about it and u will accept him as a lovely baby. he feels pain like u do but when u kill ur baby and stand infront of god plz dont say im sorry i killed my baby cause i wanna enjoye my life cause ur baby is going to judge u not god. good luck and plz think about it before u do such stupid thing.

Answer 10

Thats the problem you think it is an "it", when actually it is a human baby. So now that you know you are resposible to God. The bible says everyone knows in their hearts what is good and bad, so don`t play dumb. Some day abortion which is actually murder will be against the law.

Answer 11

if you want the best for both you and your baby you will put it up for adoption. i personally don't believe in abortion. if you have an abortion you will probably regret it. put it up for adoption and go to college, go on birth control, and move on with your life knowing you did what was best for you and your baby.

i got pregnant at 16 and i kept my son. i love him to death and would not trade him for anything. nor would i give him up. but when i think unborn baby i think baby. and when i think baby, i think my son. unborn babies are real people just like you or me. i believe if god did not want you to have this baby for any reason. he would not give it to you. maybe you are destined to make some couple very very happy with the greatest gift of all, your beautiful child. or maybe you are destined to be very happy with your child. god wants you to have this baby, for some reason. just pray and trust him and see where he leads you.