i have been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. we are both 18 years old. i love him so much, without a doubt. i have never questioned our relationship or doubted our love for each other...i have evaluated my feelings though...such as the first time i got bored or annoyed with him...i was worried i was falling out of love. then i evaluated that thought and realized that's bound to happen in long term relationships. anyway, for a majority of our relationship, we hardly saw each other cause we went to different schools. now that we're out of school, we see each other every day. we both seem to get a little more irritated/bored now. we've both had a lot of family problems lately.
but my question is: is it normal to get bored/annoyed/tired of your sig. other at times when you spend time together? or does this mean we're doomed? i really do love him so much! help!
2006-07-02 11:59:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This happens in all relationships. Longterm relationships take work. You have to have good communication and both agree that you will always work at your problems because you love each other. You have to communicate that you both want to stay in a committed relationship. Good luck!
2006-07-02 12:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If all you had was chocolate ice cream to eat, wouldn't you get bored with it? Doesn't mean you don't love it, just means you need to shake things up a little. Probably spending every minute of every day together might be the problem. If you all are never apart, you won't be able to miss each other. After all, that's the fun part. Missing each other and coming back together. I suggest, get a hobby, take a class, or find something to do without him. Doesn't mean you're doomed - just means you guys will have something new to talk about.
2006-07-02 12:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep I was in a very long relationship that started when I was 15 I thought he was my world until I started seeing the real him and then almost everything he did anoyed me it was very hard to live with him but 3 kids and a divorce later I met my Bf now of 2 years and he don't get on my nerves that often and I do still get anoyed but it goes away fast becouse I also am so in love with him so I think your tolerance of it will show just how you really feel good luck and remember you only have one life so if there are signs of mabey him not being the one dont wait till your 35 to leave like I did ... live your life to the fullest
2006-07-03 05:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by ThE OnE aNd OnLy ..PEPSIGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 42 and married. I have 4 kids and 3 grandkids. Just to give you my qualifications on long-term relationships.
The answer is yes it's normal to have those feelings from time to time. Relationships take work to make them last. So when things happen and you feel you want to choke the life out of him and you think you want to end the relationship do what I do. I simply think back to when I first met my wife and all the things about her that I fell in love with. And guess what.....you realize how stupid and trivial your current problems are and you find yourself falling in love with them all over again.
2006-07-02 12:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfwood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens in all relationships you come to a point where it becomes boring, but trust me if he or you were to go out with someone else, it would happen again. History repeats itself over and over and over. Just spice things up a bit do ouot of the ordinary back rubs before bed, do the unexpected give 90 take 10.
2006-07-02 12:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking too much. Relax. When you are start thinking too much about your sexuality and how bad the world is, take a few deep breaths and then think of something else. Do not put yourself under unnecessary stress... Write or draw to express these emotions if they don't go away (your anger with those who don't understand you). Give it time, nobody is forcing you to come out now. You are only 15 you don't need to find the perfect lover to settle with right now. Give it time. Problems in life come and go, these things will work themselves out.
2016-03-27 01:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal for anyone to feel that way at some time in their relationship. Just how irritated are you though. If this is something that passes through every now and again don't worry but if it is constant then mabey you should really talk to him and see if he feels the same you do, this could be serious.
2006-07-02 12:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by T agent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal. in a relationship you need time and space alone sometimes too. spending too much time with one person can cause you to be bored with them. you just need to take a break...maybe a few hours, or days away and see how you feel when you see him again.
2006-07-02 12:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by suzy q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely normal. We all rub each other the wrong way from time to time, friends, lovers, and relatives. It's part of the human condition.
2006-07-02 12:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by KERMIT M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋