my boy friend has problems comminacating with me.Before we started to go out we used to talk all the time.And know during school he doesnt talk to me its only ova the phone.WHAT SHOULD I DO!?
2006-07-02 11:36:03 · 7 answers · asked by baddestchic_asksome1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Boy, is that a good question. I have learned from all my years of marriage that this is the most important priority. Males need to be told things in 5 word sentences. No more, they get bored with our emotional banter. You absolutlely HAVE to be clear on what you want. You think they should know certains things we think is common sense. That is so far from false. Then you think; if you have to tell him; it don't mean anything. Honey, he really, really, really needs to be told what you want. Remember though, have fun, don't be so serious. Make him want to spend more time with you. Good Luck~
2006-07-02 12:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this same type of problem. I think you should tell him how you feel. If you cant tell him then write it down. He should be able to talk to you any place at any time. Communication makes a relationship so its not gonna go so good if its barely any. He probably just feel that he cant be open with you like he used to when you were friends. Jut tell him that you understand and you are here for him. Tell him he should feel comfortable around you.
2006-07-02 18:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Princess P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should talk to him seriously and tell him that why only in the phone that if he is embrassed of you?or what is wrong with him or whats going on when you and him get to school?and then let him talk and you try to understand him or if you dont think thats a good reason that tell him that to change that about him or is going to be over between the both of you and him
2006-07-02 18:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by mellissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you do talk on the phone, ask him why is he being like that. is he shy about it in front of other? what's the problem?
maybe your relationship is too serious and you need some more fun. try start conversations at school about with simular subjects that you have talked about before.
2006-07-02 18:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by taytay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! If he really liked you he'd talk to you where ever or whenever.......Move on life is too short!
2006-07-02 18:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by cynthia_armymom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to spark up conversation with him when you're together..if that doesnt work then idk
2006-07-02 18:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by mia02393 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should ask him.....
2006-07-02 18:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by cornnut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋