And I am really worried about being pregnant. He pulled out before he came, but it was unprotected..and I am really scared. I'm scared to tell my parents I'm not a virgin anymore, and I'm scared to tell them I didn't use a condom. I need help. Does anyone have any sugestions for me? Thanks.
2006-07-02 11:15:02 · 15 answers · asked by CAM 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you just need to relax, tell your parents, its a lot easier. but next time you do it use a condom.
2006-07-02 11:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by justme123 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I want to be brutally honest with you, just because he "Pulled Out" doesn't mean your safe from pregnancy, during intercourse a man has pre-come it's kinda slimey and clear, and can have sperm in it!! So you can never truly rely on this method as a means not to get pregnant. Secondly, I promise I am not trying to lecture you, I truly wished I'd known this stuff when I was your age, just a teeny tiny drop of that "PRE-COME" could infect your body with any one of the many vinereal diseases, let alone Herepes, which you can catch without even having sex! Please sweetheart talk to someone, if you can't talk to your parents, call your planned parenthood, they are wonderful people, and will not judge you! And they are private, you don't have to tell your parents until YOU are ready for them to know. I wish you the best! BTW slow down and enjoy being young, you will have lots of time for sex when your older!!
2006-07-02 18:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not get panicking
It is very easy . Have a urine test at a chemist shop
If you are then you need to see a Doctor
It is better to tel your parents what happened. There is no harm in it
You don't want to be a mum already
Take it easy do not panic OK . Good luck . I pray that you are not
Next time use a condom it is so easy and safe
Always carry one or ask him to carry one so that you can have SAFE SEX
Good luck
2006-07-09 11:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by San m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is it you girls always give in to sex and THEN ask questions. Un-freaking-believable. You are right to be scared about pregnancy and I hope you are paranoid about it. Maybe, just maybe, you might have learned a lesson. Your boyfriend(?) is also stupid but he got what he wanted free sex, no commitment, no responsibility and you lost the only thing you could have given to your future husband--your virginity. You have lost your virginity, your credibility, your reputation, and for what? Some stupid idiot of a boy who only wanted to use you (and he got that). I'm hoping you aren't pregnant, because you certainly can't take care of a baby and I'm sure your boyfriend can't because of his selfishness. You guys apparently don't care whether you are respected or not by your friends and your family.
Yeah, this is harsh. Get over it. You made the decision. You and your idiot boyfriend. GROW UP and WAIT FOR SEX until you are married and are responsible enough to raise a child emotionally, psychologically, and financially, AND when you will have your family's unconditional support.
GIRLS, QUIT HAVING SEX AND THEN ASKING QUESTIONS!!
2006-07-02 19:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hopefully this experience has taught you a lesson, ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM. Now, chances are you are fine. All you can really do at this point is wait a few weeks and then buy a pregnancy test. There is no point in alerting your parents quite yet.
2006-07-02 18:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by smartass420kid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a dumb you know what. First of all you can fix pregnant you can't fix AIDS. Use a condom you idiot! If you don't want to be pregnant and you don't want to tell your parents go down to a clinic and take the morning after pill.
2006-07-02 19:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by wild_orchid_1988 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You always hear this in TV use a condom while youre sexually active or you'll be pregnant or get STD why u didnt think before u did it I have a feeling that u did know u just did that in purpose
2006-07-02 18:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by T_claire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there anyone else you can talk to about it? A school counselor or someone like that? Otherwise you can go some place like Planned Parenthood (or even just to their website) and they can help you out.
I know it probably goes without saying - but next time - USE A CONDOM! If you are too shy to buy them yourself, You can get them free lots of places (like planned parenthood.)
2006-07-02 18:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by Delicious Pear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being honest with your parents is the only way to go..Although they may be angry at first they will be happy knowing you can openly communicate with them..There is also a possibility you can be pregnant , just because he pulled out does not mean he did not pre-*** in you.Tell your parents and go see a ob.
2006-07-02 18:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by justme_248 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, here's the thing, sweetie...you did it and now there are consequences...whether we like it or not...i'm sorry that you have to go through this stuff though. you definitely need to tell them. best way is just fast and quick. it's like the bandaid affect. *hug* they might freak out...but really, who wouldn't? you know? they love you. just remember that. as for being pregnant...it's possible,b/c before he came, he had pre-c u m out in you..and that too can result in pregnancy...but all you can do is take a test and pray for the best. :)
2006-07-03 12:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yo girl look...... you dont need to tell them that u did not use a condom...... thats first....... second, CONGRATS.... U r a women now....... and third, if he pulled it out before he came, u aint got nothing to worry about but make sure he wairs acondomn 4 now on..... and enjoy...... peace, DJ Daggy Daggz
2006-07-02 18:26:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋