2006-07-02 11:01:45 · 15 answers · asked by manchita_enana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
typicaly your parents are just trying to look out for your overall wellbeing. besides which unless you are over 18 and over 21 in some countries the guy could be charged with unlawfulsex with a minor and labeld a pedo which is not a nice thing to be labeled even if the sex is consentual as minors can not give legal consent to sex.
typicaly if you and the guy your with are in your teens then the guy is normally just going to be using you until you have sex then dump you and move on to another girl. which will or could leve you feeling hurt lonely, used and or abused.
it's also so you wait until your ready for the right guy at anage that feels right. remeber in your teens your hormones are all over the place as your body goes through puberty.
don't rush through your childhood into your adult life. your likely to be alive for upto 80+ years so waiting to 18 or 21 is not such a long wait.
life is hard enough without the emotional problems that a sexual relationship brings with it.
so as i said enjoy what little time you have left of childhood your teens and when your old enpough and you have been in a relationship for a couple of months only then consider taking the relationship to sex not before.
2006-07-02 11:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because sex is a very very loaded thing. You could get pregnant, which is a huge financial and emotional burden, you could get an STD that messes up your whole life and you not even KNOW about it until its too late, and besides that, sex is an extremely emotional thing, i think younger people have a hard time dealing with all the intense feelings that come with it. Plus, if they're religious theyre probably against pre-marital sex. They're just trying to protect you.
2006-07-02 18:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by oioithatscrazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not SOME parents, its ALL parents. they don't want you to because they are aware of the reality of it and of the consequences of it. they live life in the adult world and know how truly difficult it is. they have had a child and know how truly difficult that is. even if you think you know the consequences you know them on paper, not in reality and there is a world of difference. i know it sounds like grown up crap to you but trust me when you are older and do know these things first hand you will fully understand (and thank) your parents from wanting to protect you from it all as long as they could.
imagine yourself sitting in a clinic or dr's office waiting to hear whether or not you have an sexually transmitted disease that can not be cured and will be with you the rest of your life, really imagine it, thats what they are trying to protect you from. then there are all the little things like guys that will use you if they can, the danger you can put yourself in, the feelings that are so difficult to deal with and believe me this is only the tip of the iceburg. so like all other things they are doing it because they want the best for you and love you more than life itself.
2006-07-02 18:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont know how old you are but you know how parents are! Well they really really care for you and they dont want you to be getting hurt by anyone and maybe your too young to be having sex. Just talk to your parents and tell them how you feel and then they'll fo the same thing maybe something will work out!
2006-07-02 18:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there's many reasons. They don't want you getting pregnant, or getting an STD. They want the best for you, a good education, good prospects, a job.
They want you to enjoy being young without worrying about babies and money too early.
And also it's not legal in some cases, and they have to protect you, however much it seems they're interfering, what they're probably doing is trying to make you learn from their mistakes, or trying to encourage you to aim higher for yourself
2006-07-02 18:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by Eden* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you can get pregnant. Because you can get a sexually transmitted disease, even if you use a condom. Because you can get your heart broken. Because sex is for adults who understand what they're getting into and why they are making the decision. Listen to your parents, they want you to be happy.
2006-07-02 18:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you don't get pregnant and end up throwing your life away trying to support yourself and a baby instead of getting an eduacation and a good job and starting a family when you ready for one.
2006-07-02 18:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by vanitycain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because parents know best. How old are you anyway?
2006-07-02 18:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they dont want you to end up with a child of your own.
2006-07-02 18:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has anyone ever told you about babies? Do you know where they come from? Do you know what makes them come from there?
If you know the answer to all this, believe me, you have your answer.
2006-07-02 18:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋