my gf broke up with me because i looked at porn?

Question

before she dumped me she riped my picture of marisa miller up. dos anyone think that was reasonable?

Answer 1

Ok
1. Maybe its good she sumped you b/c she sure wasnt doing something right for you to be looking at naked girls.
2. OMG if u were u should of NEVER let her know do u know how bad that makes her feel
3. You made a big mistake if you cared about her shes all u need to look at

Answer 2

lol no. Unless you constantly compared her to Marisa Miller that she had no reason to do that. I guess it was just under a fit of anger. Dumping you becasue you look at porn is a little crazy unless she had reason for it, like, if u were watching it infront of her while talking to her on the phone or something along those lines. Maybe she just felt selfconscious knowing u were looking at sluts over the internet? Who knows. Why dont u just talk to her about it?

Answer 3

To let you know how some of us females feel....First off, I don't have a problem with porn, I watch it with my guy friends all the time. I'm totally straight, not bi, nor lezzy. And my boyfriend doesn't watch it, but he perfers to make our own. But one thing for sure, is if you made a big deal about those pictures or even porns of course she was upset. You were making her feel that she wasn't the woman you want! When a guy compliments another woman, and not his girlfriend/wife/fiance which ever....they are gonna feel a little insecure about their looks. So maybe next time you'll learn from your mistakes. If not than maybe you need a woman that also likes women. That way you both can share those pictures and movies. That way you don't offend anymore women.

Answer 4

Let me get this straight you look at perverted stuff that perverts any one who sees it.

That means you only think about sex related things.

Instead of loving compassionate romantic things , that are pure an rite. unlike the latter.

So if your only thinking about sex an stimulating your pleasure impulses , your not thinking about your Girl friend's feelings an needs.

So your just using her to be your "pleasure impulse stimulator".

So your dehumanizing her , and hurting her feelings an probably hurting or breaking her self
confidence an her self esteem .

For God knows how long and God knows too what extent.

Not to mention what will be the physiological effects of this trauma.

An the reaction to the physiological effects.

Plus what will be the out come of the reactions she takes to deal with what you have done to her God only knows , she could become bitter at men an never get married becuase of you .

Or she might even become a lesbian becuase of her pride ! Your the temptation for her maybe leading a un rightoues live ! Sure that would be her fault but still why tempt people to do bad ?

So in other words i don't think it was un reasonable.

Pray to the Almighty to turn you back from a
impure mind an from your blindness to the effects of your actions. An to your un-
comapsion , probably selfishness an depravity.

The Song of Solomon ; will show you What True Love between a Man a Woman should be like !

It helped me allot when i wanted to clear my mind of perverted,vain,empty, decadent
thoughts !

*The Truth hurts

"They will hate your for the truth you tell them"

Answer 5

My bf looks at porn sometimes. Guys do it, it's normal. When she found out, she was probably mad, upset and all that. She should'nt have torn the picture, I think. I don't really know who this Marisa Miller is, unless of course she is a porn star.

Answer 6

Everyone draws the line of acceptable behavior at different points. Obviously you're not compatible in that way, and draw the line in different places. Find another. Better luck next time!

I did once brake up with a guy that hid his porn use, because that was an honesty issue for me. He also had specialist pron, Asian, etc. which made me feel inadequate, because I could never be Asian for him, however hard I tried!

Answer 7

GOOD FOR HER

you shouldn't be involved in that anyway it can lead to bad bad life

every and I mean every sex offender, rapist & child molester in prision began by being involve in porn

many people have lost families, wifes, husbands, childrenl, jobs, houses and many things more because of their addiction to porn

you younng - get away while you are still not hooked
if hooked geet help now - don't turn into degerate

respect your gf because she stood up for what is right

who wants a bf or husband who wants to bee involved with other people even if it is looking soon it will be touching too

Answer 8

Yes I think she was right. So you have any idea how that makes a girl feel especially if she does not have the nicest body. That was very insensitive on your part. And if you need to look at porn then you obviously were not satisfied with what you had anyway.

Answer 9

I think she should have talked to you about it first. That pretty childish to rip something up. But I guess I do it too sometimes. My husband looks at porn all the time. I never catch him or anything and I really don't care. The girls in his porn look just like me - big booty, big thighs, even stretch marks, so I don't really feel like he's looking elsewhere for sexual stimulation. It's actually very normal for people to look at porn, she probably does to - even if she denies it.

Answer 10

As you will find out on your journey through life, most women have an unreasonable amount of jealousy in them. The best thing you can do is let a female you are interested in know that the first sign of jealousy will result in their being dumped immediately.