i want a girlfriend and i like fit women but when i look at gay men with a huge penis on the web i get a HUGE eretion more than i would when i look at nakid women on the web. i have a small penis : ( am i a small amount gay or am i just obsesed with having a big penis.
please help
2006-07-02 09:59:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
If you're young, don't worry about it. It happens to pretty much almost everybody, especially when they are in puberty, that they are attracted to their own gender. Being gay is a lifestyle choice, one that nobody is going to force you to make.
I would say just don't use porn, you don't need it, and it will only drive you ways you don't need. Keep reminding youself of what you really want and you'll be fine in a few years.
2006-07-02 10:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you desire a girlfriend, get one. You will be able to find one that is fit and maybe a strap-on for her would arowse you also! Then when you get a huge erection, well....you know what to do from there. She can also help you to explore other sexual areas that you may be interested in. Nobody is a small amount gay. Either you are or you are not and most guys do want a big penis,However, all ladies don't desire big ones and it's just a guess but probably not all gay guys want their partner to be big either.
Have fun exploring and practice safe sex, for you and any partner.
2006-07-02 17:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by zorahudson@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possibility that you are gay but if you get turned on by girls i wouldnt worry you probably are just in aphase in life where you are just experimenting and finding your way so it is ok but about when you are 17 you should know if you are gay or bi or str8 from your decisions then not now. The brain at certain ages wants different things so now men could turn you on but then they might not or might still it just depends on how you grow and who you need to be in life. I have heard of people being turned on because the want to be big it is a pschological so it is ok.
2006-07-04 03:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by krisd342005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it doesn't matter. We all have different things that make us horny. It might be situations, sights, sounds, particular fantasies. Everyone has different ones.
It's not you who is gay but the men you are looking at. The fact they are gay doesn't make you gay.
And also, sexual excitement from pictures of particular things is different than from those things in reality. So, try having sex with girls and see how much you like it.
You cannot ask someone if you're gay. How will they know??? If they tell you you are, will you run to have sex with a guy??? So, stop asking questions like this and just have sex for real - then you will know.
2006-07-02 18:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can say you are gay. You don't get attracted to penis if you're straight. Perhaps you still don't know very much your sexual orientation. If your obsessed of having a big penis then you should not get aroused when you see big penis, but instead you should be working on how to make it bigger.
2006-07-02 19:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by marky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not true that if you doubt your sexuality you are gay. Do not listen to them. Most likely you are homosexual. You are probably just at that age where you are curious. I am straight, but i still enjoy looking at women. There is really nothing wrong with that. It is completely normal.
Kaylee
2006-07-02 17:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by kaylee k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you doubt your sexuality your gay
2006-07-02 17:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you wear earings if so on both ears or on the right you could also just love both
2006-07-02 17:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on your age...if u are still in your teen..i wouldn't be so quick to declare.....
2006-07-02 19:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋