So, I recently discovered that the idea of having sex with another female turns me on, possibly even more so than sex with guys. However, when trying to determine whether or not I was lesbian or bisexual, I realized that only sex with a women turns me on, and the idea of dating and having a relationship with another women doesn't seem appealing at all. I would much rather date a guy and the idea of marrying anyone besides a guy seems, at this point, totally out. So, am I bi-curious or full out bisexual? I am sure I am one or the other.
2006-07-02 09:54:23 · 23 answers · asked by Geckolion 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It seems that people are confused if having sex with another female is only a fantasy for me, or something I have already tried. Actually, it is something that I have done, well, half-way.
I started to make-out with another female, and I expressed that I wanted to go further. We started slowly, but just before we actually got to sex, she backed out saying that she felt uncomfortable. And that was that. I wanted more becuase it felt right, but was denied. I hope that helps answer my question.
2006-07-02 12:45:04 · update #1
Curious. I believe Water Goddess said it best. If you're truly bi or lesbian, you'll want to be with a woman in all ways. Could be you're just having fantasies. Straights do fantasize -- but most won't admit it or are too repressed to deal with it. But, hey -- I'm not saying you are this or you are that. Too many labels in this society. Go with your feelings, and damn the conventions.
Source: I'm a 21st century woman.
2006-07-02 11:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by deleted 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
i'd say this makes you bicurious at this degree. All which skill is that you've a activity interior a similar sex. Now in case you opt for to act on it that could make you bisexual. the alternative is as a lot as you ^_^ best of success! Sterling Rayne (MTF)
2016-11-30 04:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you something and think about it....
A man can give you what a girl can't .A girl can't give you what a man can.
I think you're not neither bi-curious nor full bi , i think , the men you've been dating were missing something that you decided to look for in women. My advice is, spend more time on finding a man that has what you're looking for instead of wasting time in looking for it in the wrong sex (don't defy the biological nature cuz this is how we humans were designed..if you mess up with your natural design believe me you're gonna be badly messed up)
good luck with your search
cheers:)
2006-07-02 10:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by medgeek 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a lot of introspective figuring out to do. Have sex with a few women and and explore a lesbian relationship. If it still doesn't feel right, then maybe your lust for a woman is just a sexual fantasy.
2006-07-02 10:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by rattwagon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just bi-curious. A bisexual person has deeper feelings for people of both sexes. They could love either one and have a meaningful realtionship with a woman or a man. For somebody that is truely bisexual it is about more then just sex, it's about love.
2006-07-02 10:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on what you've written I'd say you were bisexual in outlook with a strong leaning to the het side.
Do you need a label to define yourself, though? Don't pidgeonhole yourself. Just be You and enjoy who you are - along with those, in whose company who you are.
Best Wishes
2006-07-02 10:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately bisexual...dont worry im the same way i can have sex with women and have had a few relationships with them but i cant be in a long term relationship with a women nor could i marry one
2006-07-02 10:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by Tequila_Sunrise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it sounds like Bi-curious. But if you like to find out if you are bi-sexual try it with a friend you know would understand
2006-07-02 10:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by pistolpete797@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't really know till you try it out with a girl. You said that you want romance with men and just sexual fun with girls. It's most likely you're bi. You can be attracted to one gender for romance and the other for pure sexual temptation.
I'm bi and that's how I am. 'Cept I'm interested in guys for only fun and girls for romance.
Hope that helps?
2006-07-03 23:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Kalley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have my head spinning on THAT one, sweetie
I am bisexual, so the idea of dating either men or women
appeals to me
i think u are bi-curious
2006-07-02 11:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by Wildflower6969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋