get rid of thids homosexual feelings,,,,...?

Question

I want to get rid of homosexual feelings, please help me please, any medical advise , yoga or science can help me?

Answer 1

First thing you can do to start in the right direction is stop masturbating. When you do that, you are creating a nuerochemical reinforcement that is classically conditioning yourself to associate feelings of eroticism with the male genitals.
I'm not telling you to masturbate on women, but to refrain from self-stimulation and use your energy for something that will help your body, and your mind. I'm talking about weight training, or resistance training. It will also encourage hormone output and should eventually steer you into the way man was designed to be sexually attracted. To carry on the species we are attracted to females. Some have a developed attraction to their own gender, and there is nothing wrong with that. But - it's not a life sentence. It can be overcome. A counselor or doctor can help you. A lot of people will say "hey, you're gay, don't fight it", but I can see you want to get over it. You can. I did. It's a normal thing that is in your power to control. You'll be stronger for it.

Answer 2

Being homosexual is your nature. You were born like that, and nothing can change that (except for a miracle). It is hard to accept that one is different to the rest, but accepting the trueth will help you a lot. Trying other things like 'getting a woman" will make things worse because it's not going to work and you'll feel more depressed.
Be strong. Accept yourself as you are. Live doing well onto others and keep your mind in peace.
It may take some time, but you will find happiness in your life. Don't feel bad for what you are. Feel proud of who you are!
I wish you good luck in your loooong acceptance journey.

Answer 3

You don't state your age, but many, maybe not most, but many boys have homosexual thoughts or fantasies that just have to do with growing up.

If on the other hand you've had mostly homosexual thoughts for a number or years, and you are mature, it is possible that you are homosexual. Then there is little chance you can "get rid" of them. That would be like getting rid of blue eyes or left handedness. You need to seek a support group or competent counselor who will help you to deal with who you are.

Answer 4

I some how think to fix it is to abstain from it, what I mean is not to have sexual relations any more with the same sex,the lord said that we are not to take part in any sexual immorality so whether it be with a man or a woman then the bible says to stay away unless we marry the opposite sex, the bible also tells us that it is better if we do not find a wife. Whilst you areabstainingg from sexual pleasures with the same sex and the opposite if you are not married i'm sure the holy spirit will come into your life and give you something far more worth while and rewarding if this is what you want. Its not just you I am at adifficultt time sexually with myself, and I think you are very strong for coming this far. May you be blessed beyond recognition.

Answer 5

Express yourself, don't repress yourself. If you have homosexual feelings, the best thing you can do is try to get to the bottom of them (no pun intended) I mean find out if you are really gay or just curious...interact with other homosexuals, see if you are compatible, see if you feel like you're home....if none of the above happen....then you know you're not gay and you can move on with your life. It will the best thing you can do for your peace of mind.

Answer 6

I can understand why you would want to "get rid of them" considering the homoprejudice the exists in our world today, but they are just as natural as heterosexual feelings and you should not be ashamed of them as it is unlikely you will be able to discard them. It is a part of you. I would strongly suggest that you seek assistance from a therapist to discuss this issue.

Answer 7

If you're already gay there's no way that you can get away with it. You better just accept the fact that you're gay. It will make you feel better if you learn to accept yourself. It's hard to pretend, you'll be living in a world of fear that someone might find out about your sexual orientation.

Answer 8

if you are a man go out with a woman, and see how you feel about her. go with one who you are most attracted to, and see, if love grows, if not you cannot do anything. You have to feel that an opposite partener is better for great feelings! Try making love with a partner of opposite sex, and try to gett addict, by doing it frequent, maybe you will change that way, and try to love them.

Answer 9

i truly believe it is something you are born with(your sexual preference) , and cannot be changed. their is nothing at all wrong with this, and their no switch you can turn on, and off to change your feelings. so just except who you are, and be happy, and proud of yourself for standing up for your believes. have a good life.

Answer 10

Get a woman