what would upset,make you jealous, or cause problems in either? I know there are always bumps in the road at times.lol I would like to hear from g/f's and wives. and guys, what things would you avoid doing to cause these?
2006-07-02 09:25:32 · 21 answers · asked by nativeamericantay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
chellediva I would like to hear from you and others by email about experiences and outcomes.
2006-07-02 09:36:15 · update #1
what do you consider emotional cheating? Everyone is giving great answers.ty
2006-07-02 09:37:16 · update #2
right now me and my daughters father are sepreated not because he pysically cheated but because he lied and emtionally cheated..he was making dates with other women online and playing games..so i left him...when a man connects with someone emtionally it means theres something that he cannot tell you and thats worse than physical in my book..because u can win the body back...but once the heart and the mind is gone theres nothing u can do
2006-07-02 09:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by chellediva2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the question uve asked is a very loaded one. there are many different parts to a relationship. Cheating is simply 1 wrong that can happen. To answer this question u have to look past the cheating part because there are always things that happen before that. I think lying and no communication are about the worst things that can go wrong in a relationshipo, if u r not able to talk openly and honestly with your mate then u are destined to fail in that relationship. No one knows what the other person is thinking or feeling.... if thats so, how can u know if ur mate is unhappy and vise-versa.
2006-07-02 09:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by tashos00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for me it would be accusations of cheating going on. Especially if you live in a small community where everybody knows each other. It can be very embarrassing and humiliating to have people talking about what is going on in your relationship and you not have any knowledge of it until after the fact. I experienced this and it took quite some time for me to overcome it. In fact my fiancee and I are in counseling with issues stemming from not only the actual infidelity, but from the pain and humiliation that the rumours and gossip caused.
2006-07-02 09:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there was cheating in the past a LOT of little things like communications with women that would cause me to get jealous but if he was true from the beginning, I might get a little heated if I saw some chick trying to run up on him but he lets them know he has a girl and is very happy and that usually calms me down lol
2006-07-02 09:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Gia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To see my man lose his honor and integrity would bothe rme the most -- this could be as simple as in the way he treated other people (a waiter, a friend, our child or the guy down the street) to major like doing immoral / illegal things.
So my husband would not een necessarily have to do something to me, but to see him cheat on himself out of his own moral conviction would cause me to lose much respect / love for him.
2006-07-02 19:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Finnale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me the worst thing a man can do to me is be dishonest. I try to be open and honest with any person I am in any sort of relationship with, and the man I share my life with will have to have that quality.
2006-07-02 09:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by rackinfratchin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other than physical cheating, physical, emotional flirting, emotional cheating, boredom, lack of interests in the relationship and emotional and physical abuse.
2006-07-02 09:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by Courtney 85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Biggest bother is finding out life facts from others instead of hearing it from your guy. for example,finding out he has hep c from his niece after many years of being with him. lies, lies,lies,biggest bother of all. bigger than cheating. If you know you in love and in a long term relationship just tell your partner all relevant info. yourself. Woman can deal with anything, we are built that way. Finding out things later on only brings feelings of hatred and mistrust.
2006-07-02 09:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what really makes me jealous is when they dont let you see there cell phone when there done talking on it, like they dont want you to see who they were talking to, or going to the bar every night, and when they think you0r cheating on them, but you know you always talk good and good only about him because your so in love with him.
2006-07-02 09:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by LoVeWiNs44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dishonesty.
2006-07-02 09:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Courage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋