Today's my birthday and my boyfriend hasn't even said happy birthday or anything. Two days ago was my birthday party with him and 3 of my friends who are girls, he didn't get me a present or anything though. He's really nice & he deffinatly knew today was my birthday. Should I be mad?
2006-07-02 09:10:22 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do u want to be mad?
2006-07-02 09:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe hes planned something special for you and wants to give you a surprise. Don't be mad yet. Men like to do such stuff. But even if by the end of the day he doesn't wish you then most probably he must have forgotten all about it. Maybe because you already celebrated your birthday two days ago. But whatever you do don't burst out on him. Maybe hes genuinely forgotten. Just make him remember. And then if he looks unhurt then he purposely didn't wish you but if he sounds genuine and says sorry forgive him. If you are in a serious relationship please don't give it up for such a small issue. I know this because I have gone through it and I too was sad on that day but I tackled it calmly and today that same person is my husband and now he never forgets my birthday or any special day ever. All the Best and God Bless.
2006-07-02 09:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by sudjenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!
And yes you should be mad and hurt at the fact that he can't even tell you happy birthday and/or get you something for your birthday. Sounds like he is a very thoughtless and uncaring type person to say the least. I think when his birthday rolls around I would do the same thing for him on his that he is doing for you on yours, NOTHING!!!!!!!!!! Sorry he is being such a big jerk on your special day. But anyway Happy B-Day to you again.
2006-07-02 09:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he plans to surprise you later on in the day. However, if you don't receive that surprise, confront him about it. Nothing worse than someone knowing when to do something and refusing to do it. Meanwhile, while it may be hard, enjoy your birthday. He may not be financially able to get you a gift. Forget about him. Today is all about you! Happy Birthday. I hope you have many more.
2006-07-02 09:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by soulfli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He either does not have the money to get you something. If he has the money and didn't, then he is not really into you and he could be selfish, which you would not want. If you know he has plenty of money, then I would ask him why he didn't acknowledge your birthday, if he gives you a sarcastic answer then I would say "next"! He could at least call a radio station and make a dedication, that's free. Just make sure he's not selfish, you sure don't want that...Good Luck!!
2006-07-02 09:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him until tonight....If he doesn't say or do anything regarding your birthday sit down and talk to him. Tell him how hurt you are and that it makes you feel sad that he wouldn't even acknowledge it's the day of your birth. Most guys are insensitive without knowing it. If you want to make this relationship work, I would pick your battles. If he cheats or lies..dump him. If he forgets to say Happy Birthday...Forgive and forget. Good Luck and Happy Birthday!
2006-07-02 09:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I thought you were materialistic, but then I saw that he didn't even acknowledge your birthday. Maybe you should remind him that it's your birthday. I know this sounds mean, but he might have forgotten because males do have lower chances of remembering things than females, and this is probably a male's most prominent nightmares, (lol).
I don't think you should be really mad...maybe disappointed and a bit angry.
2006-07-03 03:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by balanced 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its my birthday on tuesday, and yes I would be mad! dont care about presents but would like a big hug and happy birthday at least, a nice card that told u how much he cared ?? I gotta say I wouldnt forget so why should he ??
2006-07-02 09:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup, If there ever was a correct time and a place to be mad. This is it. Roll up a newspaper, and whack him one in the back of the head girl!. You've earned the right to do this one. lol
Dumb-a**, guys that don't respect they're loved ones or their feelings. Shame on him. Smack!
2006-07-02 09:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be MAD just if he dosen't do anything bye tomarow: confront him. Tell him that it made you really mad. if he's a nice boyfriend hell give you a kiss and apoligize and give you a reason. If he's a MEAN boyfriend: break up
he could be planing a suprise party so don't get to angry yet.
2006-07-02 09:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sally 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the way i see that's that the couples that combat over extremely stupid issues are basically bored do something u 2 could never do if i knew the two one among u i could have some suggestions yet i dont lol yet basically think of of the craziest maximum creative element u can and do it im enormously particular this is going to artwork oh and make it something u can do every time the two one among u become bored!!!! wish i helped!!!!!!
2016-11-01 02:34:46 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋