when evryone want to marry a vergin....why not they want to remain themselves???..why should'nt be men also be proud to be vergins?
2006-07-02 08:25:15 · 14 answers · asked by METICULOUS 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
O.K MY SPLEELING WERE WRONG...
ITS VIRGIN...........HAppy now??...i am a virgin..and will remain till get married..
how can we loose the love of our life we are not good in bed the first time???
cummon we will get "n" number of chances to improve with our wives??........
nd one of the things that make you want to get married to a girl is that you could do which you culd'nt before........................
whats the fun if you already done evrything??hmm........it wont be start of a new chapter of your life with your partener??
and what abt the diseases you may get??
what if you get pregnanat??or make someone??
this small time fun may haunt you for life....
so is it not totally right to remain virgin??????even all religions say this....
2006-07-03 00:52:11 · update #1
GOOD. Preserving ones virginity till marriage is the greatest gift you could ever give your husband or wife...
2006-07-02 08:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Black_Rabbit 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not realistic, because marriage isn't about sex. I don't personally know anyone who was a virgin when they got married so I don't know how well it works out. However, there's always the possibility that it actually works out better. I have read that it actually works out better for couples that don't live together before marriage. But I do know that people who suppress their urges usually end up expressing them in a more twisted way, ie all the priests that molest little boys. An extreme but very good example.
2006-07-02 08:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying a virgin until marriage was fine back when people got married at 12 years old. These days people get married at 30, and you shouldn't have to wait that long. Don't miss out just because you wanted to save yourself.
2006-07-02 08:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Duffman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is neither. I t just depends on both halves in the marriage. To some it is important because that know their opposite sex mate has chosen to present them self as chaste & pure. On the othe hand a non virgin will have some experience as to what their opposite sex mate would like in bed.
2006-07-02 08:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as we are human and make mistakes. many believe to wait till marriage. more women that men. its how you were raised and brought up. in the bible it says to marry a virgin and till death due you part. it just doesn't work that way in todays times and society. its all in what you believe in. you can marry virgins but wind up getting divorced.
2006-07-02 08:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is good. I don't want to marry a man that isn't a virgin. He could of have disease from other women.
2006-07-02 08:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Faithhhh,[♥] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect. Would you want to lose the love of your life because you were really bad in bed?
2006-07-02 08:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a personal choice. It does nothing to change how a marriage would turn out. Unless your with a guy who, in my opinion, has some issues.
2006-07-02 08:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by blkqueen075 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has it's pro's and con's. but ultimately it is up to what you believe in. Personally I will advise you to wait 'till you are out of high school before you become sexually active, if that's what you decide to do
2006-07-02 08:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by salembog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right its good to be a virgin until marrage
2006-07-02 08:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by pink.girl. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋