ok...about a month or two ago me and my mom got into it and werent speaking for awhile...she had planned a trip for the 4th of July to go to Arizona to see her best friend. I had went with her once out there and we had a blast. So when i heard she was going again i asked her if i could go and she said no. i couldnt believe she said no because we were back on speaking terms.So i was disappointed because i wanted to go but i made other plans for the 4th of july weekend, which included moving into my apartment.so i complained to her friends about her not wanting me to go so they talked to her and convinced her to let me go...so then i didnt really want to go but one of her friends wanted me to drive with her up here...so even tho i didnt want to go i went anyway because they wanted me to. so now im here and i dont really want to participate in their activities because im tired and wish i was at home moving into my new place. so should i participate in their outings or stay in the house?
2006-07-02 08:13:20 · 8 answers · asked by LL214 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i did participate in everything yesterday and today i just wanna rest. they are going shopping and i dont have any extra money to be spending and i hate the mall....and i also worked alot of over time last week and i just wanna relax today....am i wrong???
2006-07-02 08:16:46 · update #1
You are there now, so make the best of it while your there. You can always sleep and rest at night. If I go some where with some one and they don't join in on all the fun, it kind of makes it bad on the rest of the people. You don't have to have money to have fun anyway. Try to enjoy your self the best you can and make the best of the situation.
2006-07-02 08:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, if you do really go you should still participate in Their outings. You should even try talking to your mom. At least try, it wouldn't hurt to try. If you would raTher stay home and move into your new place, that's what you should do then. If you want to participate in the outing, because you may later regret not going. Because you can always move into your apartment another time and day. But will you get another chance to be close to your mom and have a nice 4th of July? You'll have more chances to be close to your mom, but what about the 4th of July? what will you do, if you only just stay home? No, your not wrong for wanting to relax, just make sure that's the only reason that your not going.
2006-07-02 15:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you don't really know what you want. You might as well participate in some of the activities while you are there. Have some fun!!! Or just sit around and mope. Whichever, the choice is all yours!!!!
2006-07-02 15:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you went, sounds to me like you should try to have fun. If you don't, at least you spent some time with your mom. Whats the alt., sitting around thinking about what you could be doing? Come on, I mean do you really have to ask this question. I think you knew the answer and just wanted to hear it.
2006-07-02 15:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by morgysan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short. One day your mom won't be around and you will wish you would have had more time with her. Go out and try to make it the best time you will ever have with your mom. Take a quick nap first if you are tired.....thrity minutes and then go.
2006-07-02 15:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think is that at first you wanted to go now you wish you were at home .You should participate in the activities .Have FUN!!
2006-07-02 15:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Babe♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of drama is this
2006-07-02 18:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by cynthia_armymom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just one more confused female !!!!!!!!
2006-07-02 15:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋