I love my wife, but she has aged horribly...yellow teeth, weight gain, gray hair and more. She is only 32 but looks 45! I haven't changed much (honestly!), and still look to most people like an athletic 25. I KNOW that love is deeper than looks, but I am literally repulsed by her. If you saw her on the street you'd think, "Wow. That is one homely woman." - but she used to be quite cute! Help!
2006-07-02 08:07:07 · 9 answers · asked by Nomad66 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
buy her beautyfing items or tell her, it is not fair for her not to consider your feeings
2006-07-02 23:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by wetnslippy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-23 21:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind to her. It's hard to stay fit. There's a saying...."You can make someone change, but if they want to you can't stop them."
Getting your teeth whitened changes your life. I had my done...spent money having them whitened and then put crowns on the front four. Do that for her. As far as fitness and losing weight, don't tell her she's fat. She's SOOOOO young. Start a program with her.
You look like an athletic of 25. You're only 32!
Also, has your wife had children? I had two kids, several surgeries and it took me a lot to get my weight down to 133.
I'm sure she feels bad about herself too. She needs to change her hair too. Gray hair........hair and teeth are a big deal.
I know you don't think you've changed much, but I'm sure you have. Also, age is kinder to men.
2006-07-02 08:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by Violet L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try and help her??? Suggest that the 2 of you go out for a walk in the evening. Are you there for your wife or you off doing your own thing every evening??? Something must have drawn you to her in the first place, she must be a lovely person inside, or you wouldn't have been attracted to her. Compliment her, on even the smallest things. You watch, things will start to turn around for her. Does she smoke??? Have her go to the dentist.
2006-07-02 08:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating on a companion is rarely proper. this is okay in case you text fabric "we are on a destroy" till now penetration occurs however. As for the load benefit element, basically drop some tricks... purchase her a Weight Watchers club for her birthday, refuse to sit down down on the three seat settee together with her via fact there is no longer room, serve lettuce leafs for each meal... that kinda element. wish this helps.
2016-11-01 02:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything you mentioned about your wife can be 'fixed.' Teeth whitenig, diet/exercise,new hair color and new do. You should suggest these to her out of your love and your future together...not out of a sense of finding fault with her. She needs your love and assistance in her re-make. Good luck.
2006-07-02 08:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by homerunhitter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you that you love her but share your concerns about her looks for health reasons Tell her you don't want her to die young and that it hurts you to see her this way. Ask her what you can do to help her. Also talk to your doctor maybe it's deeper than you think
2006-07-02 08:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it that your wife has aged ungracefully or that she has let herself go?
I can't say much about aging ungracefully...hell, that's genetics.
However, if she has let herself go (and only YOU would know) then you need to pull her aside quietly and express your concerns in a nice way.
Ask her if there is anything YOU can do to help her get back on track.
2006-07-02 08:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Lots of women let themselves go after they are married. I guess they figure the fight to get a man is over.Talk to her. Maybe she needs some mental health.
2006-07-02 08:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋