I asked my husband if he could run to the store and pick something up for me (I was cooking supper and needed an ingredient). He said no, that he had to go back to the shop, then he left, so I put everything on hold and 15 minutes later went to the convenience store up the street. As I was pulling up, I saw his truck. He was inside the store handing a Burger King sack to the lady clerk behind the counter!!! I was so ticked off. I walked in and just smiled. Boy, was he surprised! I told the clerk that I was there to pick up something for the dinner that I was cooking and that my husband, the man she was speaking to was "too busy" working to pick it up. I smiled, made my purchase, turned on my heels and headed out the door. My husband followed me out explaining that he was there to buy a pack of cigarettes and the clerk asked him if he would be so kind as to pick her up something to eat. I told him to go to hell! Think there's something going on here?
2006-07-02 08:05:17 · 19 answers · asked by lavenderbluelassie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just pretend that you believe him and then turn detective. Tell him that you overreacted and that you are sorry. Just when he believes that you do not think anything is up get sneaky and find out for yourself whether or not something is going on. If he thinks you do not trust him and that you don't believe his story about the clerk he will have his guard up and he will be very careful not to get caught. I mean the worst thing that could happen is you find out he is cheating. Hopefully you will find out that he was indeed just being nice to this clerk and nothing is going on. He should have made time to help you out when you asked him. If he had time to go get this chic B-king then he should have made time to go get you what you needed to cook his butt dinner. Women have a strong intuition about infidelity. Follow your gut instinct and find out what he is up to. Analyze his behavior, too. See if he is doing things differently than he used to. Good luck and I hope you find out nothing is going on.
2006-07-02 09:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by whatshername 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out what was in the sack. If it was a Double Bacon Cheeseburger with fries he really likes the clerk. If it was a Whopper with cheese and fries, he loves her dearly. If it was a plain cvheeseburger with no fries, he is telling the truth. Call The King and tell him not to serve your hubby again. Oh yeah, tell him to quit smoking. (iF YOU STILL WANT HIM.) iF YOU DON'T WANT HIM ANYMORE LET HIM SMOKE AND HANG OUT AT THE CONVENIENCE STORE. bY THE WAY WHAT DID SHE LOOK LIKE??
2006-07-02 15:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by angryspiderbites 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did she look like? Was she your husband's type? Is this the first red flag? If in your heart of hearts you feel you need to dig then dig. Find out so you don't waste anymore of your time. Sounds pretty grim though. Sorry.
2006-07-02 15:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by killmylandlord 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think ? Lady the Mack truck of life with a cheater just hit you in - don't let it run over you again - leave while there is still a chance for a life left - or stay and see it over and over again
2006-07-02 15:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by stvscholl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...men are weird creatures. It's funny how we really know what's going on. Are there other things that are going on that are weird? Singing different songs? Different hours?
Don't hack his email or anything. Just smile and pay attention.
2006-07-02 15:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by Violet L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a case of a big misunderstanding. Believe your husband and let it go. For now
2006-07-02 15:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's not anything going on I'll eat my computer.
Find a lawyer or a private eye.
2006-07-02 16:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by J. Gordon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it waddles like a duck, and quacks like a duck.....IT'S A DUCK!Kick him to the curb(better yet, let him go to the convenience store when he needs a place to live).....they seem to have EVERYTHING!
2006-07-02 15:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is something going on here? Are you crazy or just deep into denial. Absolutely something is going on. Wake up!
2006-07-02 15:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by homerunhitter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldnt be doing stuff for other ladies and not his own wife. i think somethign is going on if i were you hire a private investagator with out him knowing and go on from there. good luck hun and god bless
2006-07-02 15:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by Crimson_Skies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋