my sister and i would always hang out every saturday go eat and spend the day with our kids now that her friend moved in she doesnt call me or we dont go any where i do feel hurt and i guess jealous so if she dont call me i dont call her and so we dont hear from each other what do i do and please dont say call her and expalin to her how i feel becuase i dont feel thats right
2006-07-02 08:03:57 · 13 answers · asked by jamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should never be jealous of your sister. Would you be jealous if your left foot was massaged and your right foot wasn't? Your sister is family and if she has a wonderful friend who she enjoys being with, you should be just as happy for her.
Should you be jealous of your sister is not the right question. What you are feeling is not jealousy. You love your sister and the two of you got along so well. I'm sure you are very happy for her. What you are feeling is loneliness.
Don't stop calling her. Never be afraid to call her. What you had with your sister all of the sudden just vanished. It will come back. Than it will vanish again. This is what families do. If she was your bestfriend it could possibly mean that she's not fond of you anymore. But she's not your bestfriend. She's your SISTER. Which means she is closer to you than ANYONE can possibly be. Even if she doesn't speak to you for months at a time. This is something only families can do however.
This also means you are closer to her than ANYONE can possibly be...
2006-07-02 10:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister has changed the focus in her life. She has a 'new' interest. I agree with you that it would not be a positive move if you called her to tell her how you feel. She is your sister and she KNOWS how you feel (if she is thinking about you at all). She has chosen a new friend (I would bet a male), but regardless, she is enamored with the 'new lollipop'. After a while, the red will wear off her lollipop and she will be calling you again. Until then, you need to go have some fun with your children. Your sister will always be your sister and time will take care of this problem. Good Luck !
2006-07-02 15:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by SpongebobRoundpants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you hun is to talk to her in person and make a deal that all 3 of you can hang out because believe me i have a little sister and when she spends time with her girlfriends i feel a little jealous.
2006-07-02 15:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Brunette Chick 20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Jamer. I know how you feel. But, as people grow older, sometimes they move apart. I know you want to hold onto the way things were, but that would mean telling her how you feel. Your best bet is to let her go. She still loves you. She is just having fun with her friends. So, go hang out with your friends. As you both get older, you'll grow back together. Because if there is one thing in life that is true, blood is thicker than water.
2006-07-02 15:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by priusone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-02 15:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Baby girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a meeting on neutral ground and talk to your sister. Just let her know that you miss your time together and maybe you could try to get together once a month or so.
2006-07-02 15:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by dcbowls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her, and ask her to come out with you sometime. Make plans with her.
2006-07-02 15:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and tell her how u feel that is your sister if ya had a great bond as sisters then she would understand now
2006-07-02 15:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by tykasia32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say call her and ask whats up with u.
2006-07-02 15:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to be jealous. Im jealous of my mans bestfriend. There is really nothing you can do about it.
2006-07-02 15:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by ky_sydney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋