I've tried breakin up with him before and he says that i am playing with his heart and that he is going to get someone to snipe me when i least expect it. My reasons for breakin up aren't valid...etc... We live together and our lease aint up for 3 more months. We are engaged with 1 on the way. Please help me
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2006-07-02 07:32:31 · 7 answers · asked by chicalolalin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
fake your death
2006-07-02 07:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously one or both of you are working. When he/you leaves for work run to a police station and tell them the situation. They will let you come back for your belongings and the police will stay there with you to let you get everything you need. Get a restraining order placed against him or stay with a friend he doesn't know or some distant relatives for a while. You can make arrangements with your family at the police station and they will help you immensely to get out of this situation.
If you want more to have against him in court, get a recorder and sit down some time and ask him why he threatens you when you say you may leave. Tell him you just get frustrated sometimes, but you don't really want to leave (obviously lies, but should keep his temper down) and record what he has to say. If he has intentions, they will come out on tape. And don't be afraid to keep a recorder handy. You can make up about 45,694 excuses for having it should he ever see it, just take the tapes and give them to someone you trust. Maybe have a few tapes around he could check out with your own voice recorded (singing, poetry, whatever).
Do whatever it takes and get out!
2006-07-02 15:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by ladonnaschild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to do, is to leave him......if you think he's bad now then give him a while. The best thing to do is to leave him, break all ties completely. If you give him an inch, he'll take a mile. You may have to call the police, and eventually file charges for stalking. But the main thing is to be firm. He's just trying to control you with fear.......but don't give in. He's immature and you can use that to your advantage.....think things out completely, try to anticipate him, I'm sure by now he's developed some sort of pattern. If you can, move back home. This can be very disheartening...but you have to be firm with him and yourself....if you decide to leave, make sure you do it......don't compromise at all with him, you and your baby deserve better. His threats will eventually subside, especially if you meet someone new. Best of luck to you........
2006-07-02 15:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like what happened to me, only he did try to kill me, cause i tried to leave, he is in prison now, i waited to long, i gave him too much power.you need to plan your escape carefully, cause babe he wont dump u, hell kill you when he is tired.save up money, even if you gotta hide it in a tampon box, and when you got enough, pack your **** and run.call your parents and see if you can come home, tell them what is going on, and if you dont have that option, you still must leave.it wont get better, trust me
2006-07-02 14:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a bad situation. Good Luck!
2006-07-02 14:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by biggupp (דוד) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wait for him to break up with you. You break up with him!
2006-07-02 14:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by msdent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im trying too let me know what works
2006-07-02 14:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Munch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋