I am a 15 year old girl and all my friends are girls. It is pretty boring sometimes. And I want to be friends with some guys but i really don't know how. I am not really looking for a boyfriend, just a friend.
2006-07-02 07:02:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont be a real girly girl in front of them..you have to be one of the guys. i am a tomboy so i have alot of guy friends but when i am with my girl friends i am just as girly as them in my opinion guys are much more fun to hang out with cuz they dont care if they get dirty..they just have fun
2006-07-02 07:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pretty tough when you are 15. Sometimes it stays tough your whole life. You will read that a LOT of males do not think that guys and gals can just be "friends" - they think that the hormones always get in the way. And while I don't agree - and trust me - I have a large number of male friends, but I've been around for awhile, - it IS hard when you are so young. Why ? Because of those hormones and because you are just learning how to be a young adult and a good friend in general - trying to tack onto it beiing a friend when the hormones are in there messing with your minds is a herculean feat.
The best way to have a friend - male or female - is to be a good friend yourself. People are attracted to happy people and they are unattracted to people who seem to have agendas or are needy. If you want to like anybody for who and what they are - not what they look like or what their social standing is or what being friends with them might do for you or trying to ease your own boredom or lonliness - then you will attract people to you. Beiing anything other than genuine will - eventually - lead to a cessation of any "friendship."
I remember when I was young, I was on a swim team. There was a guy on the boy's team who was soooooooooooo good-looking that he was the talk of the girl's team. I, however, had learned, having brothers, how to be around guys (even the great-looking ones) without panting or drooling or casting longing looks at them. I didn't go out of my way to talk to him, like all the girls did; I just talked to him when it was the natural thing to do. We became very good friends (nothing more) and all the girls were amazed. Jealous, but amazed.
Learning how to just be a friend is so much better in the long-run than learning how to be a friend with a guy.
2006-07-02 14:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Guys in your age group are battling with testosterone, and it will be hard to get past that. Um, one suggestion would be to join a club at School. Sure, people may think the band is geeky and all, but you meet SO many people. You can also go to, say, myspace or yahoo360, create a profile, and chat with people on there. I'd be careful and keep your internet friends on the internet. I've emailed lots of facinating people that way. Plus, it's safe, because as along as you don't give out to much information, they can't harm you. But, when school starts, join a club.
2006-07-02 14:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by priusone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way that you are friends with your girl friends. talk to them, listen to them ect. Just make sure that they know that you are just a friend and nothing more than a friend. oftentimes, guys will misunderstand a girl being a friend as a come on but it you tell them straight up that is all it is they will respect you for it and you will have a good friend.
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2006-07-02 14:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have more guy friends then females but not 15 either be friendly speak, smile good luck
2006-07-02 14:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by ladyoh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i have always had guy friends, so i dont no how u "make" guy friends. just b as comfortable with them as u would with girls, guys can sometimes b nicer and more understanding 2
2006-07-02 14:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by tenngirlfrmthebeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be a boy first before u can make guy friends.
2006-07-02 14:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Angel. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know, but i bet u can make friend with me, message me, i have made friend with 14 girls i met on yahoo answeres
2006-07-02 14:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by Pandora Tommorow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice but dont flirt. find guys with common interests...but dont flirt if you only want them as a friend.
2006-07-02 14:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just contact me........
isn't it easy?
2006-07-02 14:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by the 6th knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋