ok, my wife still wants be friends with her ex boyfriend. there are no kids involved. befor we got married we broke up for a week or too and they slept togather. the still tells me that she has feelings for him and always will. and that if i were gone he would be the one she would run to. sometimes when they talk she dosent tell me about it becouse she is afraid that ill get mad. i just dont know how im suspose to feel , i mean i dont know they guy, weve never met, i dont know his intentions, am i wrong for feeling jelous about him?
2006-07-02 06:34:19 · 10 answers · asked by armyguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok, first of all, fu
2006-07-02 11:05:46
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If she is being secretive, she just might be planning, if he will be with her then that's the OK that she needs to leave you. It's got to be hard to be with your wife knowing that she has someone waiting for your relationship to end. I would come right out and ask her what her intentions are. Good luck!!
2006-07-02 13:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by Illinoismom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so before you got married, you broke up for a week but during that week she had already found somebody else to ****?
and THEN you got married to her? wow. that's one problem.
you aren't wrong for feeling jealous, however, you are the husband. make it very clear to her; it's you or the ex boyfriend. you need to take control of this, or get rid of her. sounds to me like she's planning an exit strategy.
2006-07-02 13:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you have every right to feel betrayed as her husband. She has no business being with this other man, unless you both get help there is big trouble in your future. Hope she gets her head out of her behind soon.
2006-07-02 15:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by dixi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put your foot down and tell her that its over with her and her Friend. you are the husband and she is not going to cheat and/or socialize with that guy. he is a real problem. you are the person that she is supposed to confide in. that guy is part of her future i you don't stop this. he has never become her ex i he is in the picture like you say. she cant have her cake and eat it too.
2006-07-02 14:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by cmac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not wrong, why does she need him around? you are supposed to be her man and he fact that she hides things are not a good sign, if he was really justa friend, why does she have to lie, why havent you met him.?if he has seen her naked then he doesnt need to be in the picture, ya know, you shouldnt have to share your wife with an ex
2006-07-02 13:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation, do yourself a favor and keep them as far away as possible. that situation caused my husband and i to separate for 6 months before i realized my ex was a bad choice, it could be worse in your situation.
2006-07-02 13:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by veronica o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion I would feel she is hiding something from you that you should be let in on. If she is doing this then she is hiding something more than just phone conversations from you with this ex. Please be careful and keep your guard up
2006-07-02 13:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by twillett33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u have the right to straightren her up b/c if they left each other why r they trying to be friends now she needs to leave the past behind and if she doesnt as much as it hurts u
u need to leave her
2006-07-02 15:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce her let her go to hill people could be replaced...dignity no.
2006-07-02 14:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by zazo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋