2006-07-02 06:07:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Many medications that he might need otherwise will reduce his sex drive and are well known for that side effect. If your smart, you'll simply play dumb and get him to take care of his high blood pressure or chloresterol problem with one of the drugs that will take the tingle out of his dangle.
PS: If men would learn how to take their time making love properly with a lot of foreplay, their wives might have some small chance of getting excited before it's all over.
2006-07-02 06:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by bobweb 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
God all of the above answers are disturbing. I really can't answer your question though since you don't give many details. Most guys would have sex 24/7 with a break in between to eat if they could thats how they are wired...HOWEVER wtih respect to their wives they should not badger her to have sex more than she is comfortable with. Contrary to popular beleif he will not explode if he hasn't had sex for more than three hours...and even more. Why don't you sit down and talk about it with him? Tell him your feelings on it. If he doesn't care or makes his needs to be more important than yours there may be a deeper rooted problem like a hidden sexual addiction. If that's the case he needs help and there's really nothing you can do for him...because even sleeping wtih him whenever he wants wont be enough for him. I really wish you the best with all of this.
2006-07-02 15:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by dixi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, My opinion is that you and your hubby are very normal!
I find myself in the very same boat as he is in. I bust my @ss, I do good things, I'm considerate, I am loving, I am a great dad! (notice I didn't say father... any guy can be a father, but you have to be great to be a dad!) AND I often find me and my wife butting heads over sex! I want it all the time and she doesn't. I feel like I am not appriciated because of it, and she feels like she is just a piece of meat to me. In reality both sides are wrong! We are just made differently! A mans sexuality is in his eyes and hands so to say... A womans sexuality is in her heart and mind. Am I making any since? It is different for everybody, but you guys need to find a happy medium.. or it will tear you apart!
You stated how fed up that you are... I'm not downplaying that, but I willing to bet that hubby is getting down on himself over it. Think about it, In his mind, the woman he loves doesn't want to show him love the way a guy feels love... Its not just him, 99.9% of guys think this way.
My wife doesn't think that I know whats up, but she comes to me 2 to 3 times a week to "get her some" I realize that she could go without it for months on end.... I think she does this to keep me from begging her for it! It also puts me into the mindset that my woman wants me! I'm the man!
2006-07-02 13:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by and,or,nand,nor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean fed up? It's not a job you do once and then it's done. Maybe you need to have more satisfaction to enjoy it. Hope you can find what it is that is missing from what he does for you. It's worth checking out.
2006-07-02 18:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by folklore 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is wrong with wanting to have sex with your wife? You should be glad he wants you and isn't out trying to get some from some other woman. Which is probably what will happen if you don't straitin out whatever your problem is.
2006-07-02 13:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, it shouldn't be a big deal. It doesn't have to be vaginal penetration. Just lube up your hand and make him hump it. This will be very quick for you and won't take much of your time, but make him tdo the dishes first our something.
2006-07-02 14:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by jerry s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men hit their sexual prime around 18. Women hit theirs around 36.
There will come a day when you want it more than he does.
2006-07-02 13:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it. Men need sex all the time. That's just how we are. If you can't deal with it, then move on.
2006-07-02 13:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really not bothered tell him you want to have an open relationship.That way you stay together and he gets to fill his boots,
2006-07-02 15:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be happy aboubt it because sum men do not want it all the time sum guys do not even kiss they wife good bye or good night
2006-07-02 13:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by jr981967 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋