Ever since she had those kids she has turned into a pig.
2006-07-02 06:03:45 · 42 answers · asked by dchella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with the first answer. She had those children because of you (yes, it DOES take two to tango). You could try to be supportive and join a gym with her or help her out around the house and with the kids so she could go to the gym. But don't be a jerk and complain about her and degrade her.
2006-07-02 07:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, a very blunt question - she has turned into a pig. There seems to be alot of underlying things going on here. Are you helping with the kids, treating her differently? For me, if something made me that sick, I'd move on. Perhaps she thinks the same of you? Who knows. But it doesn't sound at all like a healthy situation.
Do yourself and your wife (as well as the children) a favor, move out and get a divorce. Your ill will toward your wife will definitely effect the children - not good.
2006-07-02 06:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all due respect to you, your comment about your wife is disgusting, especially since she has given birth to your children. Women's bodies do change after childbirth and if women do not have the time to properly exercise and monitor their food intake, they will gain weight. I usually do not react so intensely to some of the inane comments on this board, but your comment is revolting and completely unsupportive to someone you profess to love. How would you feel if she felt that way about you? I doubt that you would be happy. Forgive me, but you sound like a completely self centered moron, content on diminishing your wife's value as a woman and a person with such meanspirited AND disrespectful comments. Not only do you insult her, but you insult other women. This doesn't say a whole lot about you, does it?
How about trying to step away from yourself and your obvious superficiality and HELP her lose weight. Why not buy her a membership to a health club where she can learn how to exercise? Help her out with the kids so that she has the time to do this. Perhaps you both can join and get a sitter (assuming your kids are young) to watch the kids. Perhaps you two could consult with a nutritionist to learn how to shop for more healthy foods and eat properly. Get rid of the soda, the donuts, the meat and potatos, the junk food and all the crap you might eat, and get on the same game page. Buy the book The South Beach Diet because it works! Or better, yet, perhaps she should see her medical doctor as there may be underlying health issues that she has that neither one of you are aware of. If she is sick, are you going to be as smug and insensitive as you are now?
Don't think for one minute that she is not aware of her weight gain and its effect on how she feels about herself. Don't think that her self esteem hasn't plummeted, or that she doesn't feel unattractive. She does, and she KNOWS - without a doubt - that she doesn't turn you on any longer. Be supportive. Be kind. Work together and show her that you are concerned, but whatever you do, DO NOT PUT HER DOWN. She feels bad enough about herself and may be eating more as a way to console herself and feel better.
My apologies if I got so intense about this. I wish you both good luck.
2006-07-08 03:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off there's no need to be a jerk about it. You ovbisouly didn't have kids for the right reasons, at least you didn't. You shouldn't look at your wife this way, she gave birth to another life that is part of you. Lucky you, you didn't have to carry it or continuely care for them. I assume she does the bulk. Maybe you should re-evaluate the way you look at things and your marriage and family. Why don't you go to the grocery store and buy nutrious things and offer to take the kids so she can have the energy to work out!
2006-07-02 06:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by skeeter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit of encouragement might help.
Never ever call her a Pig 2 her face.
2006-07-02 06:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh whooooo .
Dang you are being way out of line.
Abit of advice,
The more you treat her this way ,
You are making matters WORSE!
Have some Class ~ n ~ Grow up !
You Talking about a Women how gave you Most Precious Gift this world has ,,,,
Your Children!
If you think she is a Pig ,
What are you ,
A low class selfish ignorant Little BOY! INDEED ~!
I Say It Like It Is !
Like It Or Not~ !
~*~*~*~*~Peace.
2006-07-02 06:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats your problem? Some men like pigs.
2006-07-02 06:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro,
You wife has produced beautiful kids for you and you call her a pig? WTF is wrong with you. Hey wake up this is real life. No woman's body will be the same after kids. If you wife's appearance is the only thing attractive to you, you should re-evaluate you relationship. I feel sorry she has to put up with you.
2006-07-02 06:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by trace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just wrong. I think You're the pig, for saying that about your wife.
2006-07-02 06:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by Vero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, going on a questions and answers board discussing your wife is not a good idea. Do you love you wife? Then don't talk about her behind her back like this if you love her!!! Look for your own faults and work on them!!!
http://www.biblebelievers.com/AllThis.html
2006-07-02 06:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋