2006-07-02 06:02:21 · 16 answers · asked by lildjchriss2 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Be a man and take responsibility
2006-07-02 06:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rise to the occassion! Difficult as it may be, you can do it one step at a time.
Ask God, her family and yours to forgive you for the disappointment of an ill-timed life-event that has caused them sorrow at the beginning. Then move forward and never look back.
Take responsibility for "my girl" and "my new life" on the way. You are now a man, husband, and father! Do everything you can to be the best husband and father, and most of all, the man you wish to be. If you've not had a model of a good father in your life, find someone you respect and admire; a person to whom you can be accountable. Ask him to be your mentor.
If you are still in school, go to your Counselor and ask what kind of help is available to someone/someones in your situation. They can be very helpful.
Assure "my girl" of your continued adoration, faithfulness, and love that brought you together and lay down your life for her and your new baby.
Sit down together and write "on paper" what it will take to make a home for you three. Seeing a counselor is a good idea and there are professionals who donate their time to help people with limited income.
Pray
Find a church and attend (A church is a community of people coming together because they love and need God and one another.) The church can be a tremendous support in your making it.
Blessings to you and your new family. Enjoy them, respect them, appreciate your wife and new baby as the greatest gift you will ever have. Speak proudly of them when you are alone and when you in public.
2006-07-02 13:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude- Y are you even asking us this????????
Don't be such an A** hole
Stay with her and support her through-out her ENTIRE pregnacy, and if you want to marry her, if you don't think you can be a responsible husband and parent (or if your too young to get married) than talk about putting the child up for adoption, if you decided to keep the baby (if the girl does) than you had BETTER pay child support and be an active person in this childs life
Next time don't be retarded- Use protection and don't mess around
2006-07-02 13:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you should do is be a real dad if she is pregnant and support her all the way most guys don't care anymore but you should give an exaple to all the other guys that don't take responsability and they tell their griefriends to get an abortion help her and be a man.
2006-07-03 17:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by SunFlower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should accept it, take it like a man. You were responsible enough to have sex, I am sure you know what can happen when you have sex. Own up to your new role as care giver. It is difficult at first, but so very worth it.
Pregnant women are so sexy, you should enjoy that as well.
2006-07-02 13:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by itwasme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not your wife yet then first marry her no matter what happens after that. Be the best father and husband anyone can.
Simply give your best to life dont bother about anything else.
2006-07-02 14:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by the HERO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take responsibility
u dont have to marry her but support her
when the kid is born be a father visit it often
pay her child support
and DONT BE A JERK if u are one shell sue u and you'll have to pay and you won't get to see your kid then your kid could be messed up and you'll regret it
BE A GOOD GUY
2006-07-03 16:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by sportie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That shouldn't even be an issue unless you are married to her. The obvious answer then is that you be the best dad you can be.
2006-07-02 13:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take responsibility for your actions. So stat w/ her and try to be a good father.
2006-07-02 13:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Marines Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a few dollars together and head for the clinic, if you have to ask a bunch of strangers this question you are not ready for a kid
2006-07-02 13:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by re_love1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋