you can have sex at any age as long as both of you are under 18. now if you 14 and ur girl is lik over that, lets say you wont b seeing her for quite some time.
2006-07-02 05:56:42
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answered by nykid29 2
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You can, but can you handle the responsbility that comes with it? It feels good, but there is more to it than that. Are you ready for all the feelings that are a part of sex? The thoughts you have afterwards? The thoughts your partner has? Are you having safe sex? What if you get or give AIDS or some other disease? Can you afford to pay for the medication for the rest of your life? Can you handle it if you give it to somebody else? Are you using something to prevent unwanted pregnancy?
And besides that, do you even know how to give and get pleasure? Can you make your partner happy? REALLY?
At 14, all you really know is it feels good. You might as well not bother till you are ready to make sex the wonderful memorable experience it can be between a man and a woman (or whatever the sex is of the person you want to be with). It can be so very wonderful but it can also be horrible.
Truthfully, you probably shouldn't. You leave too much responsibility for your parents and that isn't fair. Can you afford to take your partner to a nice place, or do you do it on the couch of your parents' house or in the back seat of the car?
When you are totally able to handle every aspect of sex on your own, then you should. Until then, leave it to the grown folks.
2006-07-02 10:13:42
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answered by Maxiekatz 1
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Yep, Do you want to be a daddy at 15?? Your sex dumb like most 14 y.o. boys! Enjoy your life for awhile. Stay away from sex until your much older. But at least start asking questions about human biology with your parents or someone that has some knowledge in this area.
2006-07-02 06:03:51
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answered by rj842cc 3
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Physically,Yes. Mentally,NO! At the age of 14 it's not real. When you get older,you won't even remember the actual act,of the sex.Just that it happened.Trust me,I know.I have asked a lot of other people the same question,thru the years.They said the same thing.So it's just a wast of you time,not to mention your reputation.So,hold off.Your "inner"being,will let you know the proper timing.
2006-07-02 06:04:11
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answered by Wishee 4
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physically yes, but ask yourself these questions, you must be able to answer yes to all before even considering acting upon "doing it".
1.) are you prepared 2 accept the responsibility that being a parent brings?
2.) would you like 2 spend the rest of your life with your "sex partner" given the fact a single parent family isnt as healthy as one with both parents, you do want the best 4 your child dont you?
3.) are you that experienced so bored with being a kid that you are focusing on matters years(at least 4) in advance.
2006-07-02 06:16:48
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answered by derf 4
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Only you know when you are ready, and that age varies for everybody. Just don't feel pressured, and make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. Don't do it to make someone like you, don't do it because of peer pressure. If you are unsure, or having reservations, as you seem to be, that is probably a sign that you should wait.
2006-07-02 06:25:03
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answered by Zoey 1
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You can, but I had sex at age 15, and now at 26 I wish that I had waited. It's not worth it.
2006-07-02 05:58:26
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answered by Beth 2
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is this your age or the girls age? you should probably wait until your older if u don't have to don't because it makes you think am i going to be good enough next time and you will not be pleasing a girl at all you will do good to last 1min. and she will be like that was what i have been wondering about
2006-07-02 07:06:31
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answered by madly 2 1
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Yes, but it's not very smart. If you start having sex THAT early you'll have a better chance of catching an STD.
2006-07-02 05:56:24
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answered by ignoresociety 2
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Yes but its not advised,it will stun your growth and give you multiple acne problems.not to mention the loss of you voice for the first few days
2006-07-02 06:28:08
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answered by michael b 2
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