He's self-employed and is out-of-town alot. He stopped sleeping with me, too. I think he must be using it as a motel-on-wheels so that there are no hotel receipts to be traced. He's always keeping secrets. I think he has a secret life. When I ask he gets defensive and tells me if I don't like it, I can leave. I suggested counseling, but he said he wouldn't be happy if he "had to change". I hired a private investigator who told me all sorts of stuff, but I never got any pictures or proof. I think the guy was a scam. His friends won't talk. The other day I went by his shop and two women came out of the trailer. He seemed a bit nervous and claimed that they had car trouble and were just waiting for a ride. I think he's cheating. What do you think?
2006-07-02 05:52:14 · 6 answers · asked by lavenderbluelassie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When men do not want to talk or get annoyed when you bring the topic up means that there is something going on that they hiding.... He not telling you that he bought a trailer is not right either seems like that while he is traveling he is not alone either.... he takes those girls with him?
He should have never said "When I ask he gets defensive and tells me if I don't like it, I can leave" that's not a good sign and your guys are not sleeping together did you ever ask him why that has stopped?
He is cheating on you girl big time cheating!
Try to ask him if you can join him on one of his trips when he leaves the town and see what he has to say.
2006-07-02 06:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Pari 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of that low down dog. Do you really want to stay with someone that you can not trust. You have of yourself and any kids you have . If you have slept with get yourself to a doctor FAST you do not know what kind GIFTS he may given you that he picked up on the road. Run to not walk away fro this low life bum!
2006-07-02 06:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by fuzzywuzzysgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer. Take your time, get your ducks in a row, kids, lawyers, money and start living YOUR life without that looser! Good luck
2006-07-02 07:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by vicky l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vicky's answer is right on.
And report this "private investigator" to your state licensing board. Hacks like him give pros like me a bad name.
2006-07-03 06:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by PI Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!! What? What kind of "proof" are you needing? Have you ever "seen" and million dollars? Then, how do you know it actually exists... you just KNOW, right?
Then - you KNOW your husband is cheating.
You already know he is cheating, because you are asking us. Just admit it to yourself. Come on. He isn't in love with you. And you know it.
Move on..... "NEXT"
geez....!
2006-07-08 07:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tammi C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh
2006-07-02 06:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋