Me and my twins have alot of guy friends and about three quaters of them have crushes on us (and then there are the nerds who also have crushes on us but anyways) The guys we hang out with most are really hott and really nice and they always seem to be like competeing for us and we need someway to get them to stop competeing or someway to please them all just anything to help
2006-07-02 05:41:56 · 17 answers · asked by sweetascherrypie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
there is about 24 guys
2006-07-02 05:45:57 · update #1
We've told them we just like being friends but once and awile we will kiss them.
2006-07-02 05:47:45 · update #2
out of the 14 guys about 18 like us
2006-07-02 05:48:24 · update #3
*24 not 14 lol
2006-07-02 05:55:00 · update #4
I am not bragging i am trying to get help because neither of us wants to hurt there feeling and we love having them as friends
2006-07-02 05:55:56 · update #5
I flirt with random guys yes a very bad habit
2006-07-02 05:57:13 · update #6
Flirting with random guys can be a hard habit to break. It's fun. But if these guys are your friends, hanging out with them can be just as fun. And if you go out with them, to the theater or some amusement park or something, you can flirt with random guys who aren't your friends.
Explain to the guys that you just want to be friends with all of them. If any of them leave, they weren't your friends in the first place. You know the saying, right? Let them go, and if they come back, they were always yours.
If you are looking for a boyfriend or a kind of boy friend like thing, look outside your group. There have to be more than 24 guys in your school. And some of them have to be cute and nice. So look to those guys.
The most important art is to stop flirting and kissing them. Do you really want guys to be your friends just for occasional kisses and flirts? They should be your friends for who you are. Not for your looks or your attention. So stop flirting with them and kissing them. If you only kiss some or kiss some more than others, the other ones are obviously going to be jealous. And if you kiss them, of course they're going to think you want to be with them. A kiss is a pretty strong sign of affection.
And, stop calling your guy friends nerds. It's not that nice.
2006-07-02 06:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by millancad 5 · 10⤊ 4⤋
It sounds to me that if you are known to be friendly then you really shouldn't have a problem talking to her. Also, you don't seem 'unpopular' so that can really help your chances! A lot, and I mean A LOT of girls think that smart guys are cute, hot or even sexy; but if you're the one to always correct people and boast about intelligence then that'll really mess a lot up. Since you're in grade 10, I'm guessing you have a Facebook or twitter account? No? Get one and add her! It's a great way o get to know her but don't flirt excessively because it might seem like you'll use her. If you talk to her on Facebook or Twitter it could really increase your chances of starting a relationship; mind you it'll probably start off as a friendship. It'll also give you a reason to talk to her in person and make it so much easier! She doesn't seem to be like some of her friends, this is really good for you! Your chances with her are better if you can safely say she isn't a sl*t. But make sure you're not too frigid either (Being a guy, I'm sure you aren't) I know this isn't much help, but it's some basic guidelines that could really help you out. Good luck! (:
2016-03-27 01:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date any of them. Tell them all that you are not interested and move on. Trust me, those guys are better friends than you think. If you get to 1st base with one, he will tell all of them that you went to 2nd. You will have rumors flying and some girls may not want to be your friend anymore. If you talk about this to other girls (besides your twin) they will think you are conceded or self- centered. If you are desperate to have a boyfriend, look outside the box. Find a guy that isn't in your normal group. Find someone you laugh with, have somethings in common with, and that you are physically attracted to. I hope this info helps, remember that teenage boys are scum and will do anything to impress each other.
2006-07-02 05:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by B26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Out of 14 guys 18 like you...yeah, sure, that makes a whole lotta sense.
2006-07-02 10:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. the solution to your problem is very obvious. i think you flirt a lot with them. if you do then it's your problem, your just gona keep reeling them in on a fishion line. dude. tell then you dont want, then you stop practicing on them. i think u want secretly want all of them at once.
2006-07-02 06:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Isioma A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the real problem is you 2 are arrogant. Being confident and happy with yourself is one thing, but bragging about how many guys wanna get with you is very UN taste full.
2006-07-02 05:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
pick a guy and go out with him and stop kissing other guys.....i understand that they are competing for you but they probably do that because you keep leading them on that you like them when you kiss them.....so pick one and stick with him
2006-07-02 07:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell them you want to be friends and not date. If they still keep bothering you, then ignore them. They are probably thinking with their hormones and not their brains.
2006-07-02 05:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by Velken 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you gotta stop getting the guys attettions.... like flirting and kissing them........no matter what you do dou, if your hot, guys would always be looking for you
2006-07-03 05:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell them straight up that u want to b friends and that if they dont leave u alone about this u aint gonna talk to them no more..........if they keep doing it then dont talk to them for a couple days c how they react about it
2006-07-02 09:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by slb_angel_2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋