She is very ugly
2006-07-02 05:25:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Best not to say anything....if she's as unattractive as you say, she's probably developed her personality pretty well. This will take her much further in life than looks....in the end we all get old and "ugly" it's what's on the inside that counts.
2006-07-02 05:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by gem 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How's her personality, values and qualities? Is she a good friend to you? If she is, then does it matter about her looks? You shouldn't do anything, let her be. Looks aren't everything. Beauty is only skin deep. Looks don't last forever. Some day others may think you are ugly. People's looks change over time because of genetics. She may be an "ugly duckling" now, but just wait.
2006-07-08 08:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on why you choose to tell her that shes ugly. If you are telling her with no intention of giving her makeover, then don't tell her cause that won't change her looks. If you were telling her with the intent to give her a makeover then:
1. buy a bunch of beauty products you feel she needs
2. invite her over for a "sleep over" or order pizza and say
its a pizza party.
3. say to her: "hey lets do makeovers ! i just got this new eyeshadow and i wanna see how it looks on you".
She may protest that she "doesn't like" make-up, but assure her that no one has to see. Do her make over, praise her and she'll want to keep the look up (maybe....it worked on Made [mtv show]). Good luck !
Other wise, accept that fact that just because she isn't pretty "to you" in no way makes you ugly. So if she isn't pretty that is fine, its how she was born. The same way you were to look pretty (if thats how you see yourself). Remember, no matter what makes someone different that we dislike, it in no way affects us. So don't feel you have to fix her unless you'll be ugly too or something.
Really just accepting her is what matters. The makeover might make her happier with herself and improve her self-esteem. Its not about making her look like a model. You like her for who she is inside, try to looking into her eyes (not her face). Plus remember the good times you guys had...did it matter how she looked then ? nope.
Hope i helped !
2006-07-02 12:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by goldcrush22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once invited a friend over like this and we played in the makeup and I gave her hair a going over with a flat iron. She definitely enjoyed the makeover and I think she felt better about herself. It all depends on the person. Wouldn't hurt to invite several people over for a makeover party, maybe have a clothes exchange, have some magazines on hand and everyone clip cute styles out. Do a collage. It can be really funny! It gets us thinking, though. Good luck.
2006-07-02 12:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by lavenderbluelassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol... I love the throwaway nature of your second sentence.
If it's just that she has an unfortunate face, then don't say anything, she is probably well aware that she isn't so good looking, why would you rub it in?
But if you think that she just needs a bit of dress sense or hair help then perhaps say something constructive and nice like 'You'd look nice with longer hair/in a skirt etc'
2006-07-02 12:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by charleymac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think your friend is very ugly??? Doesn't sound like you're her friend. My friends have certain flaws about them but I still consider them beautiful. You shouldn't tell her, she'll probably just get mad at you or something. If you're her true friend, discover what's extremely beautiful about her (which just might be the inside of her).
2006-07-02 12:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by broken_hearted21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... give her a make over without telling her she is awful looking, take her shopping or to the beauty salon with the excuse that both of you are gonna get new dues, etc.
2006-07-02 12:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by vespertine•[Øblivion] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you can tell someone something like that without hurting their feelings. Also, just because you don't find her pretty doesn't mean that she isn't pretty. Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder.
2006-07-02 12:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by zaffaris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that just your opinion? who knows, maybe YOU are the ugly one and she is wondering how to tell you!!!!!!!!!
doesn't sound like you are much of a friend if you are calling her ugly behind her back.
2006-07-02 14:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by phoenix3076 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she knows, but if you really feel concerned, maybe you should offer some sort of girls' night where you do each other's hair and nails and watch chick flicks. . .and all that to make her feel more feminine. I'm sure she doesn't know how to "fix" herself, and a nice evening like that might make her feel girlish again.
2006-07-02 12:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by I heart art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋