When I was 17 years old I've been with a guy for 1 year and half, he was my first love. I've been with other guy but I always had a tought for him. I dont know if I love him, What can I do? What I can say after so many years?
2006-07-02 04:29:13 · 4 answers · asked by sheyla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's possible. Some people get into our lives and stay there forever. Some people just slip and we forget them. Why don't you talk to him about your feelings for him? It's usual that when we have the feelings for somebody, the other side has them the same.
2006-07-02 05:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to still think of someone 5 years after the relationship ended, even 10 years or more. This is one of the riches of our memory! There is a special centre in all brains [amygdala] that attaches feelings to memories, or rather it remembers the feelings around the event which is stored else where in the brain. People who have generated a high amount of feelings / emotions [good or bad] will always be at the forefront of our memories. The interesting question here is, has something happened to make you think about this person? Something in a current relationship or experience that has reminded you about them or are you looking for familiarity - something which was special that you would like to feel again? Maybe with that person or someone like that person. Never letting someone know your feelings is a paralysing moment in life. The events that took place all those years ago may or may not happen again, but to know that something catalytic happened is a credit to you and that person; something meaningful and something ever lasting. If they are a true friend they'll be with throughout life; troubles and all adventures of the heart.
2006-07-02 12:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by SoulVibe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can very well be love. Why did you split up? Sometimes people, who have found each other just drift away for no special reason. You can maybe check your own feeling if you try to see him again. Then you will know whether you really feel something for a real person or its just your memories. Then, if you still feel something, you might try to check very carefully if he also has some feelings for you. But definitely you need to see him to be clear for yourself.
Don't be afraid, call him and ask him how he's doing, because he keeps coming up in your thoughts:)
2006-07-03 06:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by Eve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the flow enjoy
2006-07-02 11:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋